Stairway To Heaven: Dream Logic vs. Mythological Reclamation [How to Explain A World]

image by Jalen Amir King 

“It may simply have been that I had grown tired of coming and going. It is terrible to forever remain in-between.”

The Famished Road by Ben Okri

My novel began with an image, a sound, and a separation. At the top of 2021, while watching Stanley Kubrick’s 1968 classic film, 2001: A Space Odyssey, I felt immense empathetic sadness watching old Dr Dave Bowman rot with the monolith at the foot of his bed. I imagined a life where one was perpetually trapped in that moment of isolation, confusion, and loss. A room took shape in my mind, mired by the promise of being alone and being forgotten. Based on what I’ve learned about prisons, from reading and hearing first-person accounts as well as research, the primary obstacle in cases of restraint is often the self. As a Black man in the United States, restraint is a permanent state that I am well-accustomed with and I’m equally versed in the gratuitous internal mental battles. The protagonist of my novel was born from that understanding: a Black male trying to navigate his burgeoning nonexistence. 

But a character isn't a story. Narrative is a structure of desire that requires a driving force. According to Susan Stewart’s On Longing: 

I look at two devices for the objectification of desire: the souvenir and the collection. The souvenir may be seen as emblematic of the nostalgia that all narrative reveals- the longing for its place of origin. Particularly important here are the functions of the narrative of the self: that story’s lost point of identity with the mother and its perpetual desire for reunion and incorporation, for the repetition that is not a repetition. The souvenir seeks distance (the exotic in time and space), but it does so in order to transform and collapse distance into proximity to, or appropriation with, the self. The souvenir therefore contracts the world in order to expand the personal. (page xii) 

Stewart postulates that narrative assumes a return and while this is extremely relevant to contents of my novel, this reading isn't where my story grew from. I’d scribbled preliminary notes and doodled a series of rooms in the weeks after I watched 2001: A Space Odyssey but nothing else had come to mind. I found my answer while listening to “Stairway To Heaven” by The O’Jays. I knew that I had to introduce a striving component to my nonexistent character in order to give them body and life. The O’Jays’ song is about ascending through life to an idyllic, godly stopping point. I combined this with my concept of the lonely room and found a tragedy of man: one destined to fall short of becoming. This man would be ignorant of his falling and fall because he’s ignorant. It’s a cycle of many. 

W.E.B. Dubois wrote about the cycle in his essay “Of Our Spiritual Strivings” published in his 1903 collection, The Souls of Black Folk. The central idea of the essay was that of double-consciousness. He writes: 

It is a peculiar sensation, this double-consciousness, this sense of always looking at one’s self through the eyes of others, of measuring one’s soul by the tape of a world that looks on in amused contempt and pity. One ever feels his twoness- an American, a Negro; two souls, two thoughts, two unreconciled strivings; two warring ideals in one dark body, whose dogged strength alone keeps it from being torn asunder.

These fighting souls are characterized by Dubois with a metaphor of a veil and a mirror. One half of a Black soul only sees themself through the eyes of others and the other doesn’t see themself at all. Dubois describes the spiritual striving of the Black soul as a desire to “go from two to one. To escape death and isolation.” My character has two selves occupying two different worlds in the story: an ignorant self and an absent self. I built this dichotomy based on the question: how many slices can you take from a pie until it becomes not a pie but a slice of pie? Once I recognized the separation sustained by the cycle I’d dreamt up, I had: a character, a situation, and the desire necessary to spark those elements into narrative. However, I did not have a world or better yet; the means to explain the world and render it completely. 

Fantastical stories were always the ones that held my attention. As a child it began with Anansi the Spider folktales and eventually spun out into the Harry Potter series. As an adult reader I’ve been attracted to the works of Toni Morrison, Kurt Vonnegut, Haruki Murakami, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Zadie Smith, Yoko Ogawa, Toni Cade Bambara, and more. These authors are known for pursuing magical realism and fantasy in an “elevated” and literary fashion. While I respect their influence on my writing, that seed of Anansi is always there for me. I write with a trickster spider in my head driving me nuts, a spider who according to some Akan tales was responsible for the very moon in the sky. The distortion necessary to animate and communicate my ideas were rooted in fantasy. For me, the fantastic has been split into two distinct modes: dream logic and mythological reclamation. 

Dream logic is a well-understood and well-studied idea but what does it mean when applied to narrative and world-building? In the context of my novel for instance, the room eventually evolved into a plane of dis-reality. This is the “world” of my protagonist’s absent self. Dreamers employ the capacity to create, perceive, recognize, and destroy in an instant. This transient quality was essential to capture both in the prose and explanation of the world I was creating, a place that was essentially no-place at all. A dream renders, distorts, and betrays with bizarre certainty. It has the gumption to ask “what if?” rather than offer an alternative that fits nicely within what we consider logical. Reason is abandoned but so is time and space. In a narrative sense, this allows for an escape of linear thinking or plot and the ability to recognize the fantastic as it is rather than question how it came to be. 

This method of creation did not go over well in my MFA fiction workshop at all early on, the mature educated mind has been trained to seek rationality, even in real circumstances where there are none. Being believed is often the first hurdle of any writer who wants to write respectable magical realism and I bypassed that, completely disinterested. I wished to fail at creating a world that worked and held no belief in coherence in the early draft. I’d abandoned what bell hooks described in conversation with Alison Saar in Art On My Mind as a “longing for linear order,” both in my writing and my life. In a way, I went into the class and said, “let’s all agree the sky is red” and everyone pretty much screamed back, “fuck no, fuck you!” Even worse, the separate world of my protagonist’s ignorant self also contained irreverent departures from our reality and my workshop had come to the conclusion that those departures needed to be parsed from the narrative in order to anchor the belief of any [respectable] reader. Intellect scowls at negative capability. I was somewhat devastated, not because they didn’t like it, many confessed to being enamored by the prose alone. I was let down because I felt as though the spider in my head drove me too far from a point of strictly logical connection.  

I was uncertain of my novel at this point and considered shifting to solely writing short stories, where the weight of suspended disbelief is borne for less time. Then my thesis advisor, who’d returned with similar notes as my workshop after reading the first eighty-five pages of an earlier draft suggested I read The Famished Road by Ben Okri. I was familiar with Okri from short stories and selected excerpts of his fiction from essays written about ideas present in his work but I was completely uninitiated with the text. How thrilled was I when the text was lush with language and asynchronous and tear-jerkingly imaginative. Here is an excerpt from the novel and a strong example of dream logic imposing itself on fiction: 

I said nothing. She lifted me on the shoulder. I could still see the head of the woman. I could still hear the voices in passionate gardens, could still hear their sunflower cantatas. I saw delicious girls dancing tarantellas in fields of comets. The woman’s head turned to give me a last smile before she vanished altogether in a Milky Way of music, floating across a lake of green mirrors. Mum took me home over the mud and wreckage of the street, over the mild deluge, under the arpeggio of watery stars. She was silent. I smelt the gutters and the rude plaster of the corroded houses. Then all I was left with was a world drowning in poverty, a mother-of-pearl moon, and the long darkness before dawn. (page 308)

Upon reading, I found that the dream logic I was set on wasn’t doomed but I did need to reorient how it worked. As I mentioned earlier, a pivotal action of the dreamer is recognition, and I needed to collect souvenirs that the reader could recognize even in the world of my protagonist’s absent self. Susan Stewart wrote in On Longing, “...narrative here seeks to ‘realize’ a certain formulation of the world. Hence we can see the many narratives that dream of the inanimate-made-animate as symptomatic of all narrative’s desire to invent a realizable world, a world which ‘works.’ In this sense, every narrative is a miniature and every book is a microcosm, for such forms always seek to finalize, bring close to, a totality or model.” There needed to be impositions of time and space and memory- which are present in dreams- but instead of obeying these impositions, I had the responsibility to destroy them and their connection to the protagonist. To realize the absent self, it was pivotal that I communicated what was being lost by the ignorant. 

The world of the protagonist’s ignorant self is less ambitious and closer to the one we know but is well-acquainted with the surreal and the uncanny. Marie-Helene Bertino wrote in her craft essay “A Master Class in Disrupting Realism and Making Magic”:

I use supernatural elements in my stories and novels because they most adequately render what I notice about memory, trauma, disability, class, ongoingness, and what we mean to each other. Many of my stories are in present tense with present tense flashbacks because of what I’ve noticed about life and memory, that to remember something feels like reliving it.

At a different point in the essay, Bertino explores a method she’s employed to gauge levels of magical fiction. The scale goes from one to ten. One designates a story that could plausibly happen in real life exactly as it is told, nothing false is rendered except for the circumstances and characters. A ten would be assigned to a fantasy story where the entire world is invented and bears no immediate relation to reality. Bertino’s examples of a “one” include: the work of James Baldwin, the work of Jane Austen, and the work of Edward P. Jones. Bertino’s examples of a “ten” include: the work of Kelly Link, the work of Stephen Graham Jones, and the work of Octavia Butler; specifically Blood Child. My MFA fiction workshop and thesis advisor essentially came to the conclusion that because the dream-like nature of the protagonist’s absent self’s world was a “ten,” then the ignorant self’s world must be a “one.” The suggestion struck me as rational and logical and I almost relented until the spider in my head started bouncing around and suddenly I’d written thousands of words about an ignorant self that occupied a world at odds with nature itself. There are plagues, biblical storms, rough beasts slouching every which way, and curses aplenty. I hadn’t produced a “one” as they’d asked but maybe a “five” or “six” at the lowest. However, I did discover a way to give the surreal elements from the ignorant world a different texture than the absent one. All the surreal elements of the ignorant world employ a tool I’ve named “mythological reclamation.” 

The idea has been present for centuries, most pronounced in African and African-American folktales. Mythological reclamation is another word for “lying,” which is what the storytellers in Zora Neale Hurston’s Mules and Men call their craft. Rather than create a skewed thing from nothing, mythological reclamation substantiates and explains what already exists. It supplants, supports, fills in, takes back. Why does the snake have its venom and its rattle? They asked God for it because it ain’t like being stomped up. Why does the woodpecker have its red head? Noah struck it with a hammer for trying to poke a hole in the ark, which is where the possum lost its tail too- Noah’s son Ham used all its hairs to make a banjo! Broke the possum’s spirit. The gator and the dog stopped being friends because Brer Dog cut the gator’s mouth all ugly-like. Usually whichever lie was better or more interesting superseded what came before as the new truth. Some truth is very old. The first Anansi story I learned came from an Akan folktale and is about his six sons using their tools to save him from a bird. Each son contributed in a different but arguably equally important way. Afterwards, Anansi found a glowing white orb and wanted to give it to the son that saved him, but all six had saved him. He asked their God of All Things, Nyame, for help and Nyame put the orb in the sky and it became the moon. These are all excellent examples of mythological reclamation because they satiate unsolved curiosities but with the fantastic, not logic!

Another concept in the novel rooted in folklore concerns the protagonist. Zora Neale Hurston’s Mules and Men describes the concept of Jack or John in the “lies” told by southern African-American storytellers: 

Jack or John (not John Henry) is the great human culture hero in Negro folklore. He is like Daniel in Jewish folklore, the wish fulfillment hero of the race. The one who, nevertheless, or in spite of laughter, usually defeats Ole Massa, God and the Devil. Even when Massa seems to have him in a hopeless dilemma he wins out by a trick. Brer Rabbit, Jack (or John) and the Devil are continuations of the same thing. (page 247)

I wanted to write about a Black wish fulfillment hero who is trapped in a vicious cycle of curses and blessings. There are no memories of his feats, neither internal nor external. I found a Moses moment deferred, a people who thought they were chosen but instead left behind. I was curious where that would leave a man, now woefully beholden to the adolescent sadness of isolation.  

The chief curiosities being reclaimed in the ignorant self’s world concern the history of families similar to my own. I grew up with one Grandpa and four Grandmothers. The disparity always seemed odd to me and as I grew older, I started seeking answers, thinking maybe it’d explain me to myself. But real life is jumbled and there is no linear order. I found more gaps than verified truth. The protagonist of my novel lives the exact same amount of days as my sole Grandfather did, the most I can expect as of writing this (following a hereditary tradition). I’ve consulted a composite of theology, theory, folklore, film, art, poetry, memory, lies, gossip, history, literature, scriptures, and traditions to explain the world I’ve been given and reclaimed everything else with my imagination. Through the surreal I am able to escalate annihilation and follow it to a natural, if not unrealistic, end point.  

The novel is currently incomplete and unsold. I have no literary agent. This essay may prove to be an exercise in futility. The narrative currently traces the history of a family curse from origin to eschaton and how a single man forgetting it all tries to restore himself to escape death and isolation. It’s about recurrence, awareness, motherhood, love, acceptance, music, sunshine, sadness, and where cathedrals form. It’s subtly inter-related. Sometimes I like to say I see the world as it was presented in [non-fiction] scriptures like the Bible or Qur’an: the Queen of Sheba, Adam, David, Solomon, Adam, Eve, Jesus, and Moses all doing incredible things through the will of God. All is possible. But I’m not sure I believe that. Like everyone else, I have things to reconcile. The novel is my attempt to explain why every change I've undergone in life has always felt like loss. Truth be told, I’m unsure if I’ve ever gotten over anything in my life. I dream and create things I don’t fully understand. This lack is where I feel most whole.  

I have a trickster spider in my head spinning stories, teaching me worlds, and turning everything to eleven. 

leap years, almost three months, some days

Winslow Homer, The Gulf Stream (1899)

It’s a taurus Tuesday night, I stand in the kitchen and watch water boil, oblivious to everything but the Friday afternoon I was caught shoplifting at the East Lake Publix wearing my Boy Scout uniform. It must have been 2011, because everything happened to me when I was 15 years old. Troop 706, I was decked in full paraphernalia- sash, patches, boots, neckerchief, handbook. I led a Cub Scout troop after-school, for five dollars a meeting, about once a week and we were going to Bert Adams campsite for the weekend. No money, no snacks. A simple calculus, but I was not stealing out of hunger or necessity. Gushers, chips, cookies, halal marshmallows, gatorade. The man who caught me was an older brother from the masjid and a plain-clothes employee of the grocery store disguised as a shopper. I was crouched over my bookbag, shifting loot when I heard his voice from behind: 

“What are you doing man?” 

I stopped, startled, and tried to offer an explanation or a lie but nothing came. He encouraged me to give him the stuff and he sent me on my way without alerting management. An unpronounced sin, a silent transgression. Over the coming months, I saw the man at the masjid on occasion and he was sure to ask me questions about myself. He learned I wanted to be a writer (always) and invited comparisons to great Black American scribes, exalting me as “the next James Baldwin.” I wasn’t familiar with Baldwin at the time, likely unschooled in his oeuvre because of Baldwin’s sexuality. For years the brother told me three things every time we spoke: that he’d buy my book when it came out, that we should go fishing, and that I would be the next James Baldwin. 

By that point I had written four books in composition journals cover to cover, while I was supposed to be doing my math classwork. I thought I knew all these things I simply didn’t and had only been fishing once, on a different Boy Scout trip with a bunch of other east side Black boys. I was the only one to catch a fish. My first experiences reading Baldwin were still a few years out. We never went fishing together, he and I. 

I’m no Baldwin. 

Lately, I’ve taken to watching basketball on mute. I don’t really understand why, the crowd and the calls are among my favorite aspects of the viewing experience but this deprivation helps me think. The players on screen, while familiar due to my unrelenting passion for watching the sport, don't seem to belong to me the way the players of my youth did. And the new players are getting the older players out of here, quickly. LeBron, Durant, Curry, Westbrook, Kawhi, Lillard, Harden. None advanced past the first round. I actively rooted against some of these players in years past and now, as they fail to live up to their former glory, I sink into my couch feeling sorry for the time where my allegiances lie and silly about my sorriness. The feeling isn't completely foreign, 2012 was also a significant changing of the guard. Similar emotions found me when I watched the young OKC Thunder overwhelm Kobe and the Lakers (Dirk and Timmy too) and when LeBron vanquished the Big 3 Celtics once and for all. Watching them come to age around the same time as I felt important and I found kinship in that. Now watching them go out of fashion (more gracefully than ones from before), I still feel a guttural hunger to become, wondering if my best days have already passed me by. 

I remember the summer of 2012, when my older brothers and I rode around Kansas City with a basketball goal and four fifty-pound sandbags fastened to the back of my Dad’s forest green pickup truck, hunting basketball games. Twice that summer, our family reunion and July 4th, those games ended with bullets and the threat, the loud whisper of death. I recall college nights spent in ritual at the free throw line: I needed to make ten consecutive before I could sleep. The routine was born from a desire to gather my thoughts, more meditation than practice. 

I listen to “Euphoria” by Kendrick Lamar. It feels like an important moment in the history of Hip Hop. I think of my brother’s ‘95 Thunderbird and the backseat, where I fell in love with rap music for the second time at 15, bumping bootleg copies of Watch The Throne and Tha Carter IV. Memories of music rock me back and forth through time like an aimless dinghy at sea a la Winslow Homer’s The Gulf Stream. “Tomorrow” by The Brothers Johnson: I’m walking under the rain in Boerum Hill. “Hold Me Down” by Daniel Caesar: I’m having dorm room sex. “Don’t Worry About A Thing” by Stevie Wonder: I’m rounding the corner on Wesley Chapel Road, leaving my love for the final time before moving to New York City. “Green Eyes” by Erykah Badu: the sun sets in Rome. “Both Sides Now” by Joni Mitchell: downcast eyes look in the mirror and recognize the years on my face. Big smile. Age has come, rebellion wanes… it must not die.  

Pathology, the science of causes and effects (of disease). I’ve been toying with the idea of sacred lightning, memories there only for a moment but powerful as all hell. Like a last kiss unfurling back to the first one. Images of Anton Ego finding his mother in the first bite of Remy’s ratatouille comes to mind (Ratatouille, 2007). I wonder where the years have gone and what they’ve brought me aside from this sacred lightning. Where are my lessons?  I’m still trying to be gentle first and honest later, still refusing help, still needing it, just still. Lightning must beget thunder. Distant, solitary, stony, punctual, lingering thunder. 

Whenever my mother and I visit her old friends, they always describe me as “the crybaby.” Momma got hella kids so that serves as their key differentiator. They regale me with tales of my never ending infant sobs. I don’t remember those years, but I remained quick to cry as years went by and without shame. In middle school I’d weep at my desk when I got C grades, arm crossed over my face like Cabanel’s Fallen Angel. The tears were never happy; usually brought on by melancholy, movies, music, heartbreak, or infrequent madness. As of now, I have not cried since February 29th, 2024. 80 days. February 29th, a date that would not have happened any of the past three years. The leap year tears were brought on during a viewing of Rosewood (1997), summoned by an anger concerning the heavy content of the plot rather than any malfunction in my own life therefore not belonging to me. Still, it’s the only time I have cried this year. As my life falls apart (since I’ve become 28), cries swell in my spirit like a sneeze that won’t come out. I’m drowning in things unsaid. Desire, admission, disappointment. I don’t think I’ve given myself permission to win, as most writers haven’t (word to Toni Morrison), but I refuse to lose. Mostly though, there is a general anxiety cloaking everything I have akin to a stillwater marsh hiding cattail stalks. I’m like Captain Hook being chased by the ticking crocodile. Tick tick tick tick tick. 

The water boils. I’m at the mouth of my kitchen compiling notes for my first novel, feeling like unsigned hype. I crack the spine of Giovanni’s Room by James Baldwin and jot down a phrase shared early in the first chapter: “People are too various to be treated so lightly. I am too various to be trusted.” I finger the boldly inked underline, humming the words along its imprint. My eyes threaten tears but they don’t come. Some days I think they’ll never come again. Being a young, sometimes angry Black man is a strange panic and I need my tears now more than ever. I’ve been told to toughen up, stop crying, and be a man my whole life and now I’m all dried up. It’s making me miserable. Life’s too hard to be strong, unloved, and alone. Il faut choisir une lutte.     

I think I’ve got my hands on the steering wheel though. I’m eating my veggies, getting some sunlight, listening to music, telling my people I love them. As far as matters of control, I’ve learned that it’s a circular prism and at each end, things are either too big or too small for me to hold in these hands. 

No fear. The world ends any day now.

Alexandre Cabanel, The Fallen Angel (1847)

published May 19, 2024

pilot light

This diary-style account of my trip to Europe from January 18th (despite the trip having started on the 13th) to February 1st is largely inspired by an interview between Wes Anderson and Susan Morrison, initially published in The New Yorker and subsequently in the nonfictional anthology, An Editor’s Burial. The interview, titled “The Pilot Light (Or: Missing Something Left Behind),” was structured around Anderson’s film, The French Dispatch. Two central ideas from the interview stayed with me and influenced my decision to keep a journal over my travels. The first was introduced by Morrison, invoking Harold Ross (The New Yorker’s founding editor), who said “when you’re out of your element, or in another country, you have a different perspective. It’s as if the pilot light is always on.” The second was Wes Anderson quoting Nescaffier on his experience as a foreigner: “seeking something missing, missing something left behind.” Given the title of the interview, Morrison also correctly realized that those were the most arresting thoughts present in their conversation. This project is my dramatic way of making three weeks feel like a life and maybe the perfect way of remembering. Leave nothing behind, even if I’ll never see it all. 

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J’ai acheté ce cahier lundi dernier. Aujourd'hui est le jeudi 18 Janvier 2024. Je suis à Milan, en Italie. Et je suis un peu triste. Mais c’est un bon voyage. My friend and traveling companion over the past few days left this morning. I am lonely and I miss her. Paris was a lot of fun and I am not entirely sure if I can make it through the next two weeks alone. At least not with my sanity intact. I am going to chronicle what I’m doing and my thoughts over the remainder of this trip, mainly in an effort to spur some type of inspiration, writing wise. The internal highlight of the trip, outside of the obvious potential for new experiences, has been the uncertainty surrounding what I will do next creatively. I am blessed. I saw the Louvre. The fucking Louvre!! And the Eiffel Tower. The Crazy Horse show was so dope, it gave me some solid ideas as well. The French vibe was just so totally intoxicating and arresting, visually as well as the calm aura of the city. Really, truly, slid into that pace of life. Milan has been so different. It’s been cloudy but it’s also just as beautiful. The complete language divide (between the Italians and I) has been very alienating for me (as opposed to the elementary understanding of French I have). But overall, it was great when I had company. Without? Who am I? You know. This isn't so interesting right now. But just roaming around felt magical. I was drunk as fuck the other night. I drank a full bottle of chianti in like twenty minutes and my innocent liver almost fell out of my ass. I think I’m still dealing with the headache to be honest. Right now I am reading Chasing Me To My Grave by Winifred Rembert. I felt silly sitting around being sad for myself when someone like him had truly been through so much. He survived a lynching, I’m sad on vacation in Milan. Like? Boo-hoo? You had to spend a day in a Milanese laundromat then go eat pasta by the river and yesterday you spent the day at an arresting art gallery with a good friend. Fondazione Prada was OD fun. There were so many inventive pieces, it inspired me to create- both with my words and to create a system of being. I am desiring more again. 

I just soaked in the hot tub for about an hour. I’m still kinda sad and dreading tomorrow. Hopefully my mood and/or disposition changes. I got some Italian comic books today and I bought a French edition of Naruto the same day I bought this tiny notebook. I’m not sure why I put off writing for so many days. I think I’m beginning to find the whole thing embarrassing, which is troubling. ROME TOMORROW!!

It is 2:28 AM on January 19th, I’m watching a shitty movie (Friends With Benefits), about to eat Gelato. I should be asleep. Am I happy? A lot more than a few hours ago, that’s for sure. It is 9:58 AM, I woke up in segments about twenty minutes ago. The morning is going smoothly. It is 11:44 AM, I have boarded my train to Rome, the hard way of course. It’s so foggy. I arrived in Rome about an hour ago, around 2:30 PM. It’s such an old city and has a very less obvious beauty, it is dirtier as well. I think I miss Milan although I like my hotel room. I didn’t do anything on the train but read Winifred Rembert’s book and inexplicably fall asleep several times. I am very hungry. The Italian countryside was gorgeous. Rome is a lot bigger and dirtier than Milan. I’m thinking about scouring Hinge, not for sex or anything, but just so I don’t have to be alone. Maybe I should go on TikTok like the young people do and find things to do. 

J’ai mangé dans un restaurant dans ce quartier. It was recommended by the concierge of my hotel. “Il Tiempo di Minerva.” Which translates to “Minerva’s Time.” The food was fine, meatballs and pomodoro. But I’m sorta tired, feeling stressed, and dejected. Money and mental health rack my mind, same old same old but in Europe. I took on a lot (with this trip), hopefully not too much more than I could chew. I’m currently unsure if I should just stay-in and chill and relax or go out and see the city. Guilt will likely break me if I stay in this room with these walls. I’ve been trying to experience the cities I’m visiting, repeating “I may never see this again,” over and over again. I will decide what to do after a show. Fruit grows on the trees here, there is an orange tree and a lemon tree just outside my window. I feel like they speak to me. What do they say? 

It is 8:26 PM. I am not going to go out. I am going to rest, take a shower and cut myself some slack. 

It is 11:18 AM and I am finally leaving my room after wasting a full half day recuperating from my last few full days. My thoughts as I awoke about two hours ago then again about an hour ago: I hate the way European toilets are shaped, specifically the bowls. My late start is on-account of my bad habit of watching basketball, now many time zones away. I fell asleep during the initial game I was watching but I woke up around 4 AM and watched until 6:30 AM (Lakers game). I had breakfast in a neighborhood called Trastevere, just off the river. The restaurant is named “Le Levain” but it was more like a bakery. My breakfast was good, even if it left a bit to be desired as far as quantity. I had two little pizzas, two treats, and a wafer covered with fruit. 10 euros. I walked to a museum, Villa Farnesina, but I didn’t go in. I walked to the Sistine Chapel, but I didn’t go in. I walked to a consignment store/record shop named Rough Radio and bought a house mix vinyl record of “Dancing Queen” for two euros. I walked to a bookstore named Otherwise and bought a copy of Books v. Cigarettes by George Orwell. Eleven euros. I walked to the Parthenon. Didn’t go in. I’m at the Coliseum at 3:26 PM as I write this. I’m wearing my violet Hollywood Ranch Market denim jeans, violet Yitai corduroy worker jacket with sunflower buttons, my flower woven bucket hat, and my CPFM chopped Nike Blazers. I look like a blueberry string bean. Most of my walking has been accompanied by Erkyah Badu’s Mama’s Gun and Baduizm in my ears, trying to slow down my heartbeat. Everything is covered with a thin film of anxiety at the moment. I feel as though I am just trying to do enough to not feel guilty for going back to my room. It is sunny and windy and beautiful and I am blessed.  

It’s a bit past midnight and my third in Rome has just begun. Really, I haven’t done much. But I have realized a lot of things. You cannot see all of Rome in a day and whatever day Rome was built was a very long time ago. 

I’m off to another late start today and I’m hungry. Last night for dinner, I went to this place named Trattoria Vecchia Roma. The food was exquisite. I had some fancy mozzarella sticks (with basil), oxtail rigatoni (slightly undercooked but the sauce was to die for), and a side of French Fries because I am childish. The line was very long and the atmosphere inside was jumping, so I had to sit outside next to a heater. A woman on a date at the adjacent table gave me a compliment on my appearance. Today, as I write, I am at this cafè named Materia. It’s quaint and bustling, feels like a Sunday morning. It’s a sunny, still afternoon actually. 58 degrees and when I left the hotel earlier, “Alright” by Zapp playing in my ears, I felt like life and the sun on my face was sharing it with me. I ordered a roast beef sandwich and a cafè latte. I hope it’s good. (UPDATE: it’s good!) 

After I finished my meal, I sat in a courtyard and read the last third of Chasing Me To My Grave, while Miles Davis’ Bitches Brew relaxed my ears and the sun washed my face. I feel lucky. I’ve spent so much time among the elements and they’ve accepted me. 

Rome is a city of ruins, wide streets, cypresses, seagulls, palm trees, stone pines, and funny little cars. I walked amongst them for hours, mainly to the tune of Bob Dylan and Solange, before stopping here at Il Duca, for dinner. It’s a beautiful and warm restaurant, just off the water. I stopped at a few places before coming here, the penultimate spot was a supermarket, where an employee followed me around the store. I’m used to being followed in stores, it’s been happening to me since I was 10. What happened next, however, surprised me. Italy’s brand of racism has been well-advertised to me so fireworks and incorrigible people were built-in to my expectations. The man coming up to me, asking me questions about myself, apologizing for following me, expressing shame, and sharing about himself as well was not. He was from some city in South Italy, some city I didn’t recognize but he mostly wanted me to know that I didn’t do anything wrong. First, in Italian, then in broken English. It was a moment of prejudice, honesty, humanity, and ultimately understanding. I find myself thinking about it now, unable to fathom having made a similar mistake yet feeling his shame alongside him nonetheless. My other stop before Il Duca was back to Otherwise where I bought Ways of Seeing by John Berger. Sixteen euros. An Italian-only bookstore/bar named Underground was across the walkway and I perused their books for a while as well, before deciding not to purchase any of its foreign prose. I ordered the seafood risotto (Risotto alla Pescatora) and the lemon sauteed spinach (Spinaci in padella all’agro). Water (maybe free), bread (finally compris). As I finished my delicious meal, I couldn’t help but look around the room, buzzing with incomprehensible conversation and I feel alone. Adjacent to me, four friends share a bottle of red wine. Ahead of me, two couples on dates. And to my back, are loads of people, who I can only imagine are spending time with ones they love. I look up and notice my table is marked “17.” Lonely Table 17 with your lemon-scented moist towelettes and tiny scribble-laden notebook. I got my check, the bread was not free (lol).

I checked out of my hotel this morning, it was an easy if not rushed process. I was very sleepy on account of my decision to stay up until 5 AM watching the Bills vs. Chiefs (Chiefs won). Check-out was at 10:30 AM, I got out of bed a bit after 9:45 and had to speed-run pack. My outfit is atrocious today. I considered a re-do of yesterday: ash Carhartt jacket, Supreme shirt, Number Nine olive pants, Season 4 Yeezy boots. But I opted for a more relaxed and disoriented look, something more comfortable for my long impending train ride. I took Rome’s metro for the first time, to a pretty neighborhood called Prati, just off Lepanto Station. It reminds me of Harlem. I’d live there if I were to move to Rome. The weather is gorgeous, so I walked from there to a restaurant named Coromandel where I had breakfast. Cinnamon toast, scrambled eggs, and orange juice. The vibes are nice here. I will have a pleasant final day. 

I am reading Swann in Love by Marcel Proust. I hope to still be reading it when I arrive in Paris on Saturday. Or to finish it on that day at least. 

I’ve spent the past few hours listlessly leafing through my book, in the sun, staring at the river and listening to CTRL. It’s slow-moving jade water. There’s a docked tiny boat named “Salvataggio” right across from me. People jog by, bike, walk their dogs. 

 I feel a bit guilty because I wasted my last few hours of Roman sunlight in a big chain bookstore, “La Feltrinelli” (probably their version of Barnes & Noble), mooching off the free Wi-Fi. T-Mobile slowed my data after I hit five gigs. I need Wi-Fi for fast or powerful service until Friday. Travel things. 

I decided to cop dinner, my last in Rome, at Ivo a Trastevere. It’s a pizzeria, I’m getting the Buffalo Bill: tomato, mozzarella, basil, cherry tomatoes, and parmesan cheese. There’s an excited Australian trio of friends sitting just a few paces ahead of me, but aside from that, I am alone at the far end of a packed restaurant. Even still, today, I don’t feel so alone. 

Bonjour! This morning niggas woke up in Brig (Switzerland)! I took the overnight train from Rome to Milan, had a difficult transfer but made it and now I am waiting on the next available train, hopeful to make it to my train to Lyon on time. The trains didn’t have Wi-Fi so that was an obstacle but I got some solid sleep without the allure of American sports. I had a racist and unfortunate experience with a cop rudely pressing me from my sleep and demanding I show documentation. I was confused at first (sleep, language barrier) but once I produced an American passport, his tune changed. I should be having a bad morning, but I’m not. Brig is sunny and has the most beautiful mountain I’ve ever seen. While pushing my heavy luggage up the steep ramp incline, I caught myself staring at its peak and couldn’t help but imagine what it would feel like beneath my feet. I was a bit sad, leaving Rome last night. Change always makes me weepy, it usually feels like loss. I’m trying to grow from that mindset. The conductor of the replacement train I’m boarding to Geneva was very kind, he gave me a detailed and careful answer and plan to make up for my mistake (the train to Brig was late and I was taking pictures rather than rushing to my transfer). The rising sun creeps from beyond snow-capped mountains. I feel full. I lose words. 

So, life moves fast. I am no longer going to Barcelona. An unforeseen card malfunction while trying to make my final transfer in Lyon caused the conductors to not let me onboard without a proper reservation and no more trains from Lyon to Barcelona are available for the remainder of the day. So I’m going to Paris! Again? Yes, but early. I have many things to figure out. A potential refund to my Airbnb account seems unlikely, so I’m considering the money simply gone. I’m hungry. I haven’t had anything to eat but a mediocre “orange and strawberry” juice from Pret A Manger. But I’m kinda rolling with it. Nothing can ruin my day after I saw that mountain, that sky, with my own two (eyes). Besides, la campagne de France est très belle. A cozy mix of caverns, cottages, lakes, mountains, and waterfalls. I will hate Lyon forever. I’m tired. I feel stinky. I want to sit and eat. I keep having to remind myself that worse things have happened to better people. 

I finally got to Paris around 7:30 PM, to this Airbnb around 8:30 PM, and this place has bone-chillingly cold shower water.  Maybe I’m a little frustrated? 

I’ve had a long morning but I’m finally sitting down to eat at Le Chinon, the first restaurant I ate at during my first visit to Paris (semaine derniere). I had a pretty good meal last night, billed to my friend Fatimah who’s here concurrently on a work trip. Steak and frites, escargot, snow crab. It was pretty late but this place prides itself on its offbeat hours (Au Pied de Cochon). Fatimah insisted, drunk with merlot and sleep deprivation, that we visit the Eiffel Tower (again) before returning home. I slept for too long and checked out on my own schedule. Laundromat to dry my clothes, barbershop to get a haircut from this kind Nigerian Frenchmen named John (who may or may not have given me a diagonal hairline- I’m leaning towards may), then onto my new hotel. I booked for five nights. After my last day, somehow I (NAJEE AR FAREED) am found craving stability. 

Another morning following a lost night. I like my hotel, it’s spacious and cozy. It’s a place called The Moulin Plaza Hotel. After an extended lounging period, Fatimah and I walked around before I had dinner- deboned quail stuffed with mushrooms and mashed potatoes topped with basil. She just had drinks. And I had one with her. Then we went to a hookah bar/lounge. I don’t smoke anything, so I sort of just sat around and drank too much wine until she was ready to go. And I think I drank two shots of vodka? All I know is that I collapsed into bed as soon as I got back into my hotel room. I awoke this morning with a rumbling in my stomach. Even still, I rotted in bed for about an hour before setting out for my French breakfast. Deux cafés, un croissant, et jus d’orange. “Drive Slow” by Kanye West, “Summers Gone” by Casper Sage, and “One Less Bell To Answer” by The 5th Dimension colored my thoughts as I embraced this wet French morning. Let’s do some living. 

I took a long, hot shower. Much needed and relaxing one to some great tunes. I was starving as well so I went to eat at Le Corner Saint Germain and it was delicious. I ordered the pouyet satay. My waitress was the most pleasant soul, a Tunisian woman named Ramia. She was so kind and lovely, I am likely to remember her for the rest of my life. Afterwards, I went to Album comics, to catch up on my reading lists. About three weeks of comics ran me about 30 euros. Maintenant, je suis dans le musée National d’Art Moderne, sur le cinquième étage. I have seen this entire floor and my favorite piece so far is “Belinda Ade Kazeem-Kaminski with a Purple Lily Fan” by Amoako Boafo, a Ghanaian painter. Here is my best quick doodle of it: 

I have the copy of John Berger’s Ways of Seeing with me. I wanted to read it but my eyes belong to the art. 

Good morning from London! It’s 10:29 AM local time and I’m at TomTom Coffee House where I just had breakfast: toast, poached eggs, oatmeal, smoked salmon, and americano cafe au lait. The train ride up was pleasant but I watched Notting Hill like an idiot instead of taking a nap. I only slept three hours last night because Fatimah insisted we get drunk and smoke hookah until her 5 AM flight back to the States. I did none of that, but I accompanied her to a few places before crashing around 2:30 AM. The line for the train was long because you actually need to go through customs to go to the UK. I haven’t gotten a good feel for its vibe yet but it seems oddly pleasant. What am I doing here? Time will tell, more living. 

It’s 3:22 PM and I’m in Kensington Gardens, at the Round Pond. After leaving TomTom Coffee House many hours earlier, I went to Belgravia Books, an independent bookstore that’s unfortunately on the verge of being closed for good. They have a clearance sale and books are going for 30% off, so I got three of them: The Old Man and The Sea by Ernest Hemingway, Mountains of The Mind by Robert MacFarlane, and The Rainbow by Yasunari Kawabata. Following my purchase, which ran me about 22 pounds, I walked through St. James Park which happens to be near Buckingham Palace. There are many birds of all kinds: geese, ducks, pigeons, crows, seagulls, pelicans. Le Ville d’Oiseaux vrm!! Even now, many parks away, birds mingle amongst interlopers and the setting sun. I took the Underground to Notting Hill and went to another bookstore/comic book shop: The Notting Hill Book Exchange. I bought Uncanny X-Men #29 from 2013 run and a vintage copy of Confessions of Zeno by Italo Svevo. I thought my consumerism had crested but I happened upon Music & Video Exchange and purchased five vinyl records for 13 pounds. “Bootylicious” by Destiny’s Child, “Oh” by Ciara, “In Da Club” by 50 Cent, “U Remind Me” by Usher, and “Don’t Think I’m Not” by Kandi Buruss. Hopefully I’m finished shopping, I don’t even know where I’m putting this shit. 

 I guess I’ll write about the latter half of yesterday first. After I left Kensington Gardens, I took the Underground to a fish and chips joint named Golden Union. It was… very mediocre. I liked the neighborhood, SoHo, and London’s iteration of Chinatown. I ate my “food” (cod and fries) in Trafalgar Square, knees crowded to my lap. Afterwards, I took a fast trek through the National Gallery, an art museum where they charge for everything but admission. Its collection was very British but there were some gems and standouts. “Water-Lilies” by Claude Monet and “The Supper at Emmaus” by Caravaggio to be specific. Then the difficult part of my day began. I got back to the train station and due to poorly managed lines, I spent upwards of an hour and half trying to facilitate my way through customs along with about a thousand other people. The train ride was uneventful if not mildly irritating. I got back to Paris around midnight. The majority of my pleasant day had been soundtracked by Road Song by Wes Montgomery, Luv 4 Rent by Smino, and the recent live recordings of Isaiah Rashad’s four favorite Cilvia Demo tracks. In my eagerness to get back to my hotel room and sleep, I rushed into the metro behind someone else, only to be stopped by France’s fare police demanding to see my ticket when I got back to Blanche station. I was unable to produce one and my travel-belabored mind and fatigue-addled lips were unable to find an adequate lie. I was ordered to pay a fine or (it seemed) go to French jail. I chose the former. It was an amount in sync with the remainder of my cash for my food budget for the weekend. To be honest, it felt cruelly unlucky. I stood at Blanche station in stunned silence for a while, trying to find emotions. My mind went back to a homeless man at Barbés-Rochechouart station de metro who asked me for money or to buy him something from the vending machine. I was stressed about my upcoming rent payment and the remaining expenses of the trip, so I said no, clutching onto what remained. Now, it’s gone. All of it. I wonder if that was my punishment, the only mercy the fare officer took on me was that I should be sure to remember my ticket next time. “How Much Does A Dollar Cost?” by Kendrick Lamar enters my mind. Back at my hotel, I sort of just lied in bed and stewed. And slept and continued to do that for the rest of the day. I’ve mainly wasted it. I just woke up wanting to go home, for the first time. Have I overstayed my welcome? The fine just felt so deflating. I do not even miss the money much, the incident stole from my spirit. Of course I was tired and partially understood that I deserve my rest. But am I not in Paris? And not for too much longer either. There’s too much I don’t know. Like the weird (sorta racist) chicken place downstairs, Crispy Soul, is actually pretty good! Et je peux voir la Tour Eiffel depuis un pont à côté de mon hôtel. C’est beau. It was a cloudy day but the sun still shimmered. Writing now, in a restaurant named Le Saint Jean, I appreciate that. I ordered poulet fermier label rouge, purée maison, et sauce au thym. I’m once again alone, but in a new place and with little at my disposal (whatever that means). If I ruin my life now, it won’t last forever but the memory of now can hold me forever. This memory has to last. I must not be destroyed. Food’s here, talk soon. [NOTE: I left before I finished my meal, a mouse ran across my feet and I was NOT seated outside.]  It’s 10:07 PM, Saturday night. I’m in Paris, France. Say it again, aloud this time. 

“ .” 

It’s been a long day but it was nice. I only had one meal, I revisited Crispy Soul and got a chicken sandwich. I went to a vintage sunday market in North Paris and an independent Renegade Art Gallery called Rivoli 59. I mostly just bided my time until I could go home. I’ve mostly felt alone (lately) and the NFL playoffs aren’t helping (lol). I think the main reason I went to Crispy Soul again was to experience some good old American greasy slough-food. Even still, I am so happy to have done this. Amsterdam tomorrow. 

Turns out, I’m not going to Amsterdam today! I awoke to sold out seat reservations for the remainder of the day, the apparent bane of my existence. Even still, I have checked out of my hotel. My bags are staying there as I eat my French breakfast (croissant, jus d’orange, cafè au lait) and await my train to Amsterdam, leaving tomorrow at 6 AM. Do I feel like an idiot? Yes. Am I going to let it ruin my day? I hope not. I really need a vacation from this vacation. 

I read about 25 pages of my book following breakfast, at the corner cafe named “Le Magenta.” The sun is out, the intersection is busy, I feel a modicum of peace. 

I walked from Le Magenta to the Sacre-Coeur and the view was quite beautiful. On the way, I saw a cinema playing my favorite Wong Kar-Wai film, Chungking Express. I stopped by  a record shop. They had a nice collection but I did not make any purchases- I’m all out of space. Up here, atop a staircase that rivaled the one from John Wick 4, I can see all of Paris. It seems shrouded in smoke and gleaming promise. Of what? I’m not sure. Maybe I’m just trying to keep a positive attitude. I’m listening to The Free-Wheeling Bob Dylan. 

I’ve walked to the 10th arrondissement and it’s a nice neighborhood. I think I would enjoy living here. It has a laid back beauty, even now, as I stroll astride Canal St. Martin. The lightness of the day has returned, like stones from my chest. Three graffiti kittens wink at me from across the street. I could be anywhere right now, in fact I should be elsewhere. But I’m here and it’s a welcomed curse… of abundance, of excess, ease, and unfamiliar. Better yet- unforeseen beauty. I’m in a French art bookstore/gallery. There are labels on each book, “photos interdites dans les livres” or “photos are forbidden in the books.” It’s vibrant with color, quiet music hums from the radio overhead. 

I took a late evening stroll through Chatelets to Centre Pompidou, my second visit. But I didn’t visit any exhibits, I just read while mooching the outlets and free Wi-Fi. A beautiful and kind French woman who works at the museum guided me to a secluded area where I could charge my phone after watching me stand near an abandoned outlet near the coat check. 

I have walked to Waly-Faly, a Senegalese restaurant in the 11th arrondissement. I’ve been here once before with Michaela and the food was very good so I wanted to indulge again before departing. I walked nearly 40 minutes here on a rumbling stomach, eager to eat (time and food). Gare du Nord ouvre à 4h30. Seven more hours. The plan, as of now, is to live out my Jesse Wallace (from Before Sunrise) fantasies and spend the night bouncing around town before my sunrise train to the Netherlands. The waiter at Waly-Faly coolly let me sit down sans reservation, and I will appreciate him for the rest of my life. I ordered the chicken yassa. It comes quickly. 

La confiture était très incroyable. Mais je mange trop vite et je dois partir bientôt. My bad, the chicken was so good it got me writing in French [haha, I crack myself up]. I am still hungry despite the generous portions but I have dessert plans elsewhere. 

Today is my last day in Europe. I spent the night amidst the yellow Paris lights, watching the moon wash it all blue. But I didn’t take notice of much in the city but the shadows. I was worried about something else happening, another delay, but I’m at Gare du Nord, about to board my train. I will miss a lot of things about Europe. Some stupid, some valid. Things I will miss: way too many bakeries, ashtrays adorning the outside seating (neglected by me), French TV, rivers running through cities, seeing new somethings, learning new public transports, flexing foreign cash on the gram.  

I am at the gate in Amsterdam, prepared to depart back to New York. My Eurostar train was very old and the seats didn’t recline and was 45 minutes late but I still arrived with ample time to spare. At the baggage check, I was overweight so they tried to get me for an additional 140 euros on top of the 60 bucks I already paid to check my bag. Yeah right! I re-allocated much of my stuff into my carry-ons. Not going for it again. I never luck out and get a gate close to the entrance, so it was a lot of walking but I’m here. I’ve been listening to the audiobook for The Will To Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love by bell hooks all morning. Tryna remain calm, rest my spirit. But I think my body needs recovery time from my odyssey yesterday. I have only eaten an overpriced yogurt parfait. It is 12:49 PM, boarding starts in six minutes. 

Regrettably, I did not get to see much of the Netherlands. From the window of my train I could make out farms, windmills, and ducks moving about irrigation canals. Amsterdam promised to be an adventure. Next time. 

My fight was really long (nine hours, I just got a passport and ain’t been nowhere). Jetblue did not deliver on their promise to provide free Wi-Fi but there were heaps of free food to compensate. The travel from JFK to my Harlem apartment proved more burdensome than anything I endured in Europe. Of course my bags were no joke on public transport but it was compounded by an intense fever I picked up (or realized) on the flight. A kind stranger helped me lift my bags up the less than accessible steps of my station (or the one nearest to my apartment building). Upon seeing my bedroom, I felt no distance, as if I had just been there the day before when the reality was due to my trips to extended Atlanta and Europe, I’ve only spent 2 of the last 40 days in Harlem. But I felt like I was at home. That’s what home is right? Familiarity without contempt. 

After all these days, I am left wondering what good all of this did. Three weeks of cavorting around Europe drinking too much coffee and wine, writing, reading, museums, bookstores, record shops, walking until my calves burst, and eating enough escargot to make a crab green (I’m not sure which other animals eat snails). I started this project because I wanted to see if I can bridge the gap between objective observations in a  new foreign environment and subjective experience. In many ways, that is what fiction is, subjective experience. And writing wise, I feel like I’ve been a bit foggy lately. Not even blocked. It’s open. The road is available. Just foggy. My mind wanders to Paul Thomas Anderson’s 2012 film, The Master, when Phillip Seymour Hoffman’s character swaps out the term “recall” for “imagine,” much to the dismay of Laura Dern’s character. Recollection is sacred because it is something that has happened in the most concrete sense and often can be shared with others. Imagination lives off somewhere undisclosed either to come in the future just for you or not at all. And while most functioning adults are afforded the capacity to tell the difference between the two, when it comes to writing they’re impossible to disconnect. Maybe my fog was comes from my growing inability to notice the texture of stone grooves flanking the roof of my apartment building. I fell into a routine (job, desire, satisfaction). I stopped noticing the little things and as a result, the little things became harder for me to imagine. It sounds simple, no grand revelation, no new ground being broken. A nigga can’t read Swann in Love and pretend he’s discovered Proustian recovery. But after all that time spent away; where I imagined myself as some sexy mixture of Wes Anderson, James Baldwin, and Anthony Bourdain, I hope I at least remembered how to see. 

[To Be Rather Than To Seem]

Foreign Chaos [COP’s CITY/COP CITY]

Few moments are too big for my eyes but I was there the night Rayshard Brooks’ sleeping, spooky anger awakened and burned a southwest Atlanta Wendy’s to nothing. June 13, 2020. I didn’t light the fire but I wish I did. Despite the fact that three (Natalie Hanna White, John Wesley Wade, and Chisom Kingston) were arrested in the weeks following the demonstration, I’d argue every protester was innocent of arson. The reality is that when Officer Garrett Rofe murdered Rayshard Brooks (27, married father of three) for being drunk and asleep in a drive-thru, less than three weeks after the murder of George Floyd, he made further destruction our responsibility. The flames swelled with my back to them, I ran from the fire and tear gas and bullets and the police and the fear and the night and I hardly stopped to look back. The destruction had just begun. More black people would die at the hands of law enforcement all across the country, more poor people would be stolen from, more loss would be felt by many at the hands of the few. 

On June 5, 2023 in Atlanta; the city that murdered Rayshard Brooks nearly three years earlier, the Atlanta City Council approved a transfer of upwards of 30 million dollars to the Atlanta Police Foundation for the construction of “Cop City” despite overwhelming public disapproval and consistent cries for local governments to “defund the police.” Cop City is a 381-acre police militarization facility currently being built in the Weelaunee Forest, a sacred indigenous land on the outskirts of Atlanta. Over 60 million dollars of secret corporate funding has been contributed to its development as well as an additional 30 million taxpayer dollars. The current plans include a mock city to practice urban warfare, explosive testing, a plethora of shooting ranges, and a BlackHawk helicopter landing pad. All military-grade. 

this morning, atl city council voted to fund #copcity as many of us expected they would.

which is why i addressed my comments not to the snakes that mock democracy; but to you, the people of atlanta. to remind you that we have all the power to #StopCopCity pic.twitter.com/nt0132gG7F

— #stopcopcity (@farmereva_) June 6, 2023

We are sold an idea of so-called police officers, that they are genial and selfless guardians who have taken a pledge to protect and serve their communities. The police have instead worked tirelessly and with unbridled conviction to execute and maintain the values of the ruling class. Hell, many cops don’t even work in their own communities. The further militarization of Atlanta’s police force demonstrates a few truths:

1. The police want the many to fear them. 

2. The wealthy elite will do anything to secure their placement. 

3. The wealthy elite fear the many’s striving towards prosperity. 

4. The many’s desire for change will never be met with action as long as the wealthy elite maintain control.  

5. The police fear us, on behalf of the wealthy elite. 

6. Their fear begets violence on the many. 

In the summer of 2020, there was civil unrest. Racism, police brutality, patriarchy, low wages, COVID-19 pandemic, gentrification, homophobia, shrinking employment and housing opportunities, disappearing small businesses. People were fucking pissed. The pressure blew up and almost tore the city apart and the wealthy elite felt naked and unprepared for what the world had to offer, for what the world was prepared to take. They felt how the many feel all the time. 

The politicians don’t care about the people. They don’t work for the people. They work for corporations, the developers, and the police. The Atl City Council ignored the largest mass mobilization ever because the corporate-funded Atlanta Police Foundation controls them.

— Kamau Franklin (@kamaufranklin) June 6, 2023

At first, Cop City seemed to be a knee-jerk reaction on account of their fear of nakedness. As time marched on and public outrage at the plans intensified, I believe it grew more sinister. Many grassroots activists and organizations were calling for a reallocation of funds from the Atlanta Police Foundation to community outreach organizations. Aside from lip service from many around the whole country and “thoughts and prayers” to those who lost anything, nothing changed. “Defund the Police? Fuck no!” They had the adequate fear to do everything in their power to never be naked again. 

Fear is the currency we trade in. They fear us, they perform violence and hope we fear them more. They fear the destruction of property and loss of capital, the many fear the loss of life and freedom and happiness. We stand to lose so much more and we’ve been paying for it so much longer. Rather than address or even explore the problems that catalyzed Atlanta’s insurrection, the city council decided it would be better to suppress the way the problems made us act. Shoot me in the head and tell me I’m crazy for bleeding…hell, then tell me I’m not bleeding at all! 

The demonstrations against the construction of cop city were among the largest mass mobilizations ever. My heart goes out to the activists and the boots on the ground trying to make a difference and halt one of the biggest misallocations of justice and resources our community has ever suffered. My heart goes out to all the protesters that were arrested and their aching bodies. My heart, my heart, my heart. I’m not sure what else to say or what the next course of action is following the Atlanta City Council’s cowardly decision to help fund this mess rather than push those dollars into upholding and improving community life. No help for the hungry, the tired, the weary, or the homeless. Only more for the wicked.  

Fuck Michael Julian Bond. Fuck Byron Amos. Fuck Mary Norwood. Fuck Matt Westmoreland. Fuck Dustin Hillis. Fuck Andrea Boone. Fuck Jason Winston. Fuck Alex Wan. Fuck Marci Collier Overstreet. Fuck Amir Farokhi. Fuck Howard Shook.    

Fuck them for feeding the wrong fear, a fear based on loss and loss alone. 

The Atlanta City Council has approved legislation for ‘Cop City’ funding after hours of public comment calling to reject it pic.twitter.com/5pNdQLYNre

— philip lewis (@Phil_Lewis_) June 6, 2023

I wanted to sleep anywhere but jail the night Wendy’s went to ashes. My phone’s battery was nearly dead. The highways were locked, no friends or family could come get me. I was alone. As I hurried away from the fire, I noticed a lone couch sitting at one of those country-looking MARTA stops (just a metal pole, red clay, and crabgrass). Even with everything going on, I only wondered about the couch. I stared at it for minutes and just tried to breathe. Everything disappeared. The fire, the protest, the sirens, the anger, the police. Just fear. 

I evacuated the area and flagged down a bus driver a few minutes later. She let me in despite the bus being out of service and took me to a train station. I made my way back to the east side.    

Atlanta is beauty. A lot of the beauty comes from an appropriate fear of wasting what we have and things we may never become. Our beauty and fear becomes chaos and with enough of it, the fire may not stop at Wendy’s or a few police cars. My biggest worry is what will happen to all that beauty at the hands of fear given to those exposed to a chaos they couldn’t begin to understand. 

God did give Noah the rainbow sign, no more water. 

God Did. 

God.

published June 13, 2023

ART EATS WORLD

Boy meets art. 

Art, in its purest form, is something found either within one’s self or the world that exists around them. Through self-discovery, our experiences inform our artistic identity and help shape us for the world we live in.

While sitting within the four walls of my friend’s dorm room a while back, we talked about which city is home to the best black creatives. I always rep the 305 (I’m from Broward County), and she was going strong behind Atlanta. The conversation continued for a while, our pride was at stake. Everything came to a head when we sparked a heated debate over which place had harder black music (Atlanta won the argument but don’t count out South Florida, ever). The conversation was so long that I began to consider our setting; Tallahassee, Florida. The home of FAMU. 

Atlanta, Miami, New York, and Chicago are the premier hubs of black creativity but Tallahassee also has something to say. It’s teeming with black creativity and triumph, although it didn’t feel like that at the beginning of my time here. I was more to myself at the beginning of my college career in fall 2021. I stayed within my shell and never broke out. I never looked to see where anything creative was happening here. 

Creativity was a fixed and narrow idea for me. I still needed to learn what creativity could be. Creativity was simply entertainment, like rapping or singing. That felt like the only way someone “creative” could exist, especially at an HBCU in Florida. Coming to FAMU wasn’t initially a place where I saw any creative landscape where I could create and grow. Most other people didn’t see Tallahassee as a place for creatives, either. I didn’t see myself as a visionary, but others did, even upon arrival at FAMU. Like Giahni Bosquet, a FAMU spring 2023 graduate. Giahni is a music producer and poet who “embraces their jagged edges and filters that ether into the material.” He has a smile like the sun and finds ways to make even the most straightforward answers sound poetic. He and poetry are a perfect match. He weaves stories that blend into his life story. Through his DJ mixes, he also combines songs from the past and present, from hip-hop to kompa,  all through his lens of culture. His art speaks well beyond him. Being around people like Giahni helped me weed through my creative identity, and the revelation of Tallahassee’s Black art scene was even more illuminating. Living here throughout my first year of college, I’ve learned the creative scene is something you must seek out for yourself. 

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“You gotta get it out the mud,” says 3rd-year FAMU public relations student Derrick Taylor. Derrick is a photographer and CEO/creative director of CMNTY Studios. Closed off to most, when working on his projects with CMNTY, his creativity shows to be a hidden gem amongst most. Derrick’s work showcases our college community in a new light by highlighting black culture, creatives, and art through his lens. My favorite examples of his work are his project with Tribe Vintage (a student-run brand on FAMU’s campus specializing in vintage HBCU apparel) and his “New Year, Same Culture” video project. Both of these put FAMU under these rose-colored glasses that those who go here only would think it exists to us alone. Derrick acknowledges how Tallahassee looks on the outside but also how there’s so much here to be discovered. “Tally can be an eyesore to some, but it’s so much under the surface. It’s like a gold mine.” After digging through the troughs of similar events and normal college town behaviors, you find people who showcase things far beyond FAMU and out into the larger community and the world around them. Moni Fagbamiye, a second-year student at FAMU and founder/head designer of Aworan, says, “There are so many young creatives here with ideas and perspectives that translate through their art in really dynamic ways.” Moni’s designs draw on her own cultural background and current streetwear and high fashion, even hosting fashion shows highlighting other black designer shows as one of the many dynamic ways creatives constantly show their skills and crafts. 

My sophomore year at FAMU is coming to a close, and I’ve found an artist’s safe haven in a place where it isn’t expected. Getting more involved and, more importantly, joining a poetry organization on our campus, Voices Poetry Group, helped me see more and more what FAMU can offer creatively. Beyond helping cultivate my creative writing and performing skills, it allowed me to meet others like me who also want to find a place where creativity can be developed into a more mature and expanding skill. Giahni says his “taste and approach are now refined” due to his time here. 

Some may view their four years here as a boring stop along their journey, but FAMU and Tallahassee are breathing examples of a place that inspires and quickly. Tally boasts a myriad of performers, dancers, poets, writers, and filmmakers. Tallahassee, while relatively known as a college town, is starting to be recognized as a creative hub for various forms of creative expression. 

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FAMU creatives weave themselves into the larger tapestry of the city’s black artistry that grows larger with each person who comes to spend time here. I, for one, only hope to be able to sew myself into it soon like those mentioned here and those outside. “There are little pockets in Tallahassee where you can see creativity,” Derrick says. The city's black creativity landscape is collected within little bubbles across town, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t actively changing and growing. Moni and Giahni said that while it is hidden away, the creative scene is growing and should be looked into more. 

I will go home to Miramar for the summer, only 10 minutes away from Miami, which has its scene in its own right. Beyond missing FAMU for the friends and experiences it’s allowed me to have, I will look back to FAMU as a place of burgeoning growth for black creatives. A place where I and many others can find a home and community. A place where our creativity soars far beyond the four years it took to cultivate it. 

Art is world. 

published May 24, 2023

Black Pomegranate

Fall 2021, Cap Skirring. Hot sand sifted between my toes and the waves whispered lust in my ear, the water called me back. Diapered-children ran by and men, locked in togetherness, played soccer. I wanted so badly to join them, to feel at one with my homeland, but the distance between them and I felt as far as it did at home. I connected with the street cats instead. The rabid, gentle cats with a violent need to protect and survive. They laid in the shade surrounded by trash, old clothing, and rotten fruit. Feelings of anger and resentment rushed, loud, to the forefront of my mind. I tried to figure out solutions to the grand colonization problem that reveals itself in every setting I step in. My booming thoughts met a decrescendo when I looked upon a half eaten pomegranate, raw and lost in shape- now this cat’s first meal of the day. I visit that pomegranate often, in Senegal, lost in my thoughts.

As an artist; I see my life through the lens of questions, creating meanings, and being critical, especially with myself. I found my lens from a lifetime of art history courses. We’re taught about symbols and constant meaning within art. The pomegranate has an array of meanings.  

The pomegranate is a Christian symbol of fertility. As stated by the National Library of Medicine, “...the pomegranate is often found in devotional statues and paintings of the Virgin and Child…” The fruit is often tied to women, wombs, our femininity, and expressions of our humanity. Pomegranates have been a frequent motif in my art. It evokes feelings around my feminine expression and how bountiful it is. But at times, I am reminded of Cap Skirring, my beautiful home spotted by heaps of trash, shattered glass, and dying animals eating rotting fruit. The pain prompted thoughts of black feminine hardship, dawn, and doom. To understand the history of black women and our struggle towards humanity is to hold the ability to understand the world. We must entertain the idea of the pomegranate to find a complete understanding.

Madonna of The Pomegranate by Sandra Botticelli (1485)

Black women are largely absent in art history. Sure, we may get our segment in some forward thinking art classes, but never with the same extension afforded to other identities. You do see pomegranates. You see them surrounded by virgin idols and women performing their femininity. But you’ll rarely see women like me graced with the reverence and respect of the feminine fruit. Women like me were not considered women for most of history and these small reflections of womanhood in art showcases in real life and my own practice of femininity. Oftentimes I wonder if I am “woman” enough to engage with these topics surrounding art, femininity, and sex.

Don’t get me wrong, I find myself sexy, compassionate, and alluring. But that does not mean I am a woman, especially when it comes to its intersection with blackness. I’m still taller than average, have small breasts, dark skin, and kinky dreadlocks. Society at large would argue I’m not woman enough to even consider myself any of the positive traits I attributed earlier. It’s an interesting phenomenon.  A lot of black women are between a rock and hard space when it comes to embracing our femininity. Whether it be how men view and engage with us, our representation in popular media, or the ways in which we find esteem in ourselves, we often give the power to someone else when it comes to defining womanhood. You must be confident, you must have long hair and nice edges, your ass must be fat and your waist must be slim. A man should desire you, wish to commit to you, and showcase his undying love or else you are allowing less and ruining “it” for black women as a whole. You must have a man and he must have money, a big dick, and hate other women. You must have girlfriends that are sexy, beautiful, and educated. Your vagina must be hairless, oderless, wet, and withholding of pain and pounding. You can’t be. In reality I don’t shame any of these standards. I follow a lot of them subconsciously. I simply wonder why we have these standards for our womanhood and femininity.

A few years ago, I was in love with my best friend. I considered her my sister and I valued her like no other. I found her to be the perfect additive to my womanly perspective; she was someone I could talk to, engage with, and be fully honest in how I feel inadequate or embarrassed when it comes to showing up as a woman. Being masculinized has followed me my entire life, and being vulnerable with her was very easy. But I was shocked to find out she resented me, shamed me, and spread negative things about me behind my back. I later learned her secret disdain was rooted in her belief that I was the perfect woman. She didn’t understand what I had to complain about, and told me that I was the reason she grew into her own womanhood, so my perceived lack made her feel inadequate. Our relationship hurt me in more ways than most, but it gave me first hand experience with problems a lot of black women need to engage with.

What exactly makes you a woman? Is it because you have good pussy? An even sweeter mouth? Is it sexy clothes? The men you fuck? What exactly makes your gender performance attractive? Are you recognizing it as a performance?

These are all questions I’ve engaged with. Black womanhood is a very specific intersection with its own ordeals. I think even those that fall under this umbrella don’t understand why they feel so resentful in the womanhood they’ve been practicing, just as my friend did. When she revealed all the things she did behind my back, and later apologized and asked for forgiveness, I made sure to keep those questions in mind because a woman insecure in her womanhood is set up for failure. This is especially true when it comes to maintaining  feminine connections. We had a long talk, centered on doing the work to be better. Despite my desire to understand and be understood, I was finally able to grasp what  it means to be a black woman in this day and age.

Black women grow from rotten pomegranates. The seed was cracked, covered with flies, but still grew to create something new. Black Americans and others from the diaspora continue to encounter loss in regards to our womanhood and value. Whether that be metaphorical or literal rape, black women everywhere are having to reengage with their sense of identity through the lends of colonialism and degradation. Some cope with this dehumanization by following the same rules of womanhood as white women do. Shave your legs, do for your man, get married young and have a bunch of kids. Black women can never live up to any performance and it’s fruitless to make the attempt. We are black, after all. Any replication of the patriarchy is futile, because we cannot be defined as women by the patriarchal status quo. 

Dream Caused By The Flight of A Bee by Salvador Dali (1944)

I push for black women to understand that their performance of womanhood will always be questioned because they’re black, first. When people ask me why I am so confident, I first say, “I’m sexy,” then I say, “keep telling yourself that.” I am confident because I am a dark skin black woman; so much of the world’s perception of me is rooted in insecurity, shame, and this idea that I do not love myself. But when I think about what I offer to the world, the men and women who find me alluring, and the power it takes to ask yourself tough questions, I feel confident. I feel grounded in myself and understand that what makes me a woman is because I say so. I am a woman. A woman that doesn’t believe in the patriarchal understanding of womanhood. I have sex with whomever I find attractive. I don’t shave unless I feel like it. When others tell me I have to do something, I find it sexy that I say no, because I can. And it all makes me a worthy woman, regardless of any hegemonic systems that are rooted in me laying in a bed of hatred. 

Black women need to understand and accept that performances of womanhood will always come in vain, unless you escape patriarchy (which, you aren’t)! As a community, black women may never be understood like the pomegranate is in art, but I do believe we have the capacity to create a new idea of what it means to be woman enough. The desire to create a new solution in the midst of centuries old problems, empathizing with the pain you and others relate to, and holding space for authentic love and connection will always be enough, even if you came from rotten fruit.

published May 20, 2023

WHITE LIGHTERS: notes on memory, death, growth, and being 26

No white lighters ‘til I fuck my 28th up. [Frank Ocean, “Nights”] 

March 1, 2023. I watch bodies lumber past and over snow-scattered grass at dawn through a foggy full-length window overlooking the east side of Central Park. The night before was NYC’s first snow of this winter, the longest the city has ever gone without it. Today marks 19 days before the beginning of spring, 11 days from the start daylight savings time, 21 days before Ramadan first night, and 21 days from my 27th birthday. Apollo’s chariot will ferry the sun across the sky, the snow will melt, and today will become yesterday. I am thinking about death. 

I didn’t think I would live this long but I ain’t died yet and I've only had a few close calls. Wasn’t supposed to make it past 25, jokes on we still alive. Every moment since I turned 25 has felt like borrowed time and borrowed time can go two ways. The first way: you wake up grateful for every second you get and recognize that you should do the best you can with the time you have left. The second way: the clock ticks faster. For a while, the second way was all I got. I woke up everyday anxious and ready to die, not because I wanted to but because I had to, because that’s what was written for me. 

I am 26 years old at the moment. The same age Jay Z was when he released his debut album, Reasonable Doubt. The same age Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. was when he led the Montgomery Bus Boycott. The same age Napoleon Bonaparte was when he conquered Italy. The same age Stevie Wonder was when he released Songs In The Key of Life. Older than my mother was when she gave birth to me, her third son. She turned 26 a few months later. My father was 27 when she gave birth to me. He turned 28 a few months later. 

I often think about a poem I wrote in the summer of 2018, at 22 years old. It was partially inspired by a conversation I had with my mother when she revealed to me that she never thought she would live past 30 years old. Each day for her is an incredulous discovery, even at 52. The poem outlined what I thought the next eight years of my life would be and I’ve proven to be prophetic in this instance, at least so far. 

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 “8” 

At 23 

I practiced smiling in my dusty mirror.

At 24 

I only talked to myself on late nights.

At 25 

I lived outside of my mind, in your world.

At 26

I fell, I met the lost love of my life. 

At 27, 

I gripped a white lighter for a whole year.

At 28,

I fell, I lost the love of my life.

At 29,

I gave away my soul to keep my life.

At 30, 

I cried for the final time, my last dance. 

-2:37 AM, 6/24/18

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Infamously, there are a lot of famous people who have suffered an early death at 27. Legend says many of them died with a white lighter on their person. I don’t have a white lighter yet because I don’t smoke but I thought about buying one to carry on my person while I was 27, as a gag and just in case. The 27 club includes icons such as Jimi Hendrix, Robert Johnson, Amy Winehouse, Jim Morrison, Jean-Michel Basquiat, Kurt Cobain, and Janis Joplin. Another member of the 27 club is my paternal grandfather, Finis Sylvester Rankin.  

Grandpa Finis died in 1975 at age 27, beaten to death in his cell at the Missouri State Penitentiary in Jefferson City. Grandpa Finis was serving a life sentence for killing a store clerk/singer on December 15, 1969. He walked into The President Shop on 3101 Troost Ave in Kansas City, Missouri and asked for the clerk, Antoine Ashcraft, by name. Ashcraft presented himself and Grandpa Finis shot him twice and left. I’ve never been certain of his motive. Grandpa Finis walked away from the incident unscathed for months. 

On February 9, 1970 my grandfather was detained by the police when he pulled out of a parking lot at a suspicious speed in his 1963 Chevrolet. The police were responding to a call in an area where a string of burglaries had taken place. The weapon he used to kill Ashcraft was in his car (which the police searched without a warrant) and the police seized it, claiming it was in plain view. Grandpa Finis was arrested along with an accomplice and after ballistics confirmed it was the same weapon, a lengthy case in the Jackson County Circuit Court ensued with a life sentence on a second-degree murder conviction at the end of it. 

While in prison, my Grandpa Finis had dedicated himself to the arts. He was an avid participant in convict art exhibitions, paintings were his primary medium of choice. I’ve only seen one of his pieces, a drawing of a dog he mailed to my grandmother with a poem inscribed on it. It was mostly apologetic. 

November 25, 1975. Kenneth Ray Richards, another inmate serving a life sentence, murdered my Grandpa Finis in his sleep with repeated shots to the head with a hammer and a knife. An additional 15 years was tacked onto his life sentence as punishment. At the time of his death, my Grandpa Finis left behind my Grandma Reba and their three children who were all born in a two year span while my grandparents were still teenagers. My father was one of those children. 

In The Autobiography of Malcolm X as told to Alex Haley, Malcolm X says that he expected his life to come to a violent end while he was young, just as every man in his family had done before him. His father was murdered by a white supremacist gang and all of his uncle’s lives came to a violent ending as well. As it turned out, Malcolm X was prophetic. He was murdered on February 21, 1965 at only 39 years old. I’ve felt the same sensation throughout most of my life. I didn’t grow up with many older men in life, whether it was due to death or desertion. 

I’ve had two grandfathers in my lifetime. The first, my Great-Grandpa Scott, died when I was three years old and I have no memory of him. In my heart, I’ve only had one Grandpa compared to the five grandmothers I’ve had (down to only two now). My Grandpa Hazziez passed in 2020 at 73 years old like his father, my Great-Grandpa Scott did before him. The disparity between the legacy of elder men vs elder women in my family always astounded me. As of now, 73 years old is as long as I could expect to live. 

Currently, I have seven nieces and nephews with an eighth one on the way. Watching my Dad be a grandfather, something his father never got to experience, gives me a lot of joy. The most recent time I went down to Maryland to see him, he showed my oldest sister and I his photo album of all his children and grandchildren. I have never seen him prouder of anything, ever. Suddenly this was something I wanted and I broke my own heart that day because it’s tough for me to imagine for myself. My Dad is currently 54 years old and that’s hard for me to wrap my head around, both the passage of time and the many times he’s had to re-allocate his identity to accommodate for who he had to become as time did work on him.   

Time has done a lot for us both. I leaned harder on my father at age 26 than I had ever done before in the preceding 25 years. Following my move to New York, he is the family member who lives in closest proximity to me. Money, time, an ear, a voice. My father’s relationship with me has never been exactly what it is now. It has been a blessing. 

A letter I slipped under my mother’s bedroom door when I was teenager dealing with a bout of melancholy comes to mind. I began the four-page handwritten letter by telling her that I prayed for my own death each and every salat. Not suicidal, just ready to die. I spent the rest of the letter lamenting what I didn’t have and the things I wish I could do to make it better. I felt like I was denied a lot of things, my health included. And I’m still denied many of those things. My Momma called my Dad that night with tears in her eyes and told her she hated him, something I didn’t know until later. 

The letter I got in return from my mother broke my heart. She wrote about what she was going through, why I was being denied these things, and how she wishes she could help. I had failed to consider her and I came to realize that my problems weren’t just my own and they weren’t just going to go away with time. Time would only intensify my problems. 

At 26, my problems were as real as they had ever been. I remained alone for most of it and my life seemed to only get more difficult. I felt like I woke up everyday with a hole in my head. A lot of my problems seemed to stem from a lack of vision and my previous inability to foresee what was fated to find me. I didn’t have the imagination to see myself at 26 and I hated myself for it. Hell, I ain’t feel 26. I felt like the same kid who wrote that letter to my mother all those years back, trying his best to catch up to the years ahead before they left him behind for good.   

In December 2022, I suddenly felt a weight lifted from my shoulders. I am unsure why, but one day I woke up and I didn’t hate myself anymore and I forgave myself for hating myself for so long. I forgave myself for all of my failures, for the kids I didn’t have. For the people I’ve hurt. I forgave myself for being angry, for being denied, for being alone, for feeling alone, for all of my doubt and the guilt that came with it. It just all slipped away from me like water off my back. 

A few things I did at 26: my writing was published in my favorite magazine ever (aside from Tribe Mag), I began teaching a course at New York University, I listened to a lot of music, spent some time with my family, struggled with my health to the point near-immobility, took an overnight security job at the Metropolitan Museum of Art, didn’t do the right thing, discovered additional emotional intelligence, reading books, sinning, and I wasn’t enough a few times. Maturity? Fully developed prefrontal cortex? I don’t know. I’ve been happy for the most part. My life isn't so different, I’m just accepting it better. The truth of my life and the truth of my spirit are finding each other. I’ve been writing, praying, and listening. That feels like ablution as well. Forgiveness of self is the most important thing I did at 26. 

I’m not completely certain what I will remember most from being 26 in 26 years. Maybe it’ll be New York’s first snow. Or maybe the memory will be like the snow, too late in the season and destined to melt rather than stick around. The snow, just like my doubt, guilt, denial, and self-hate could slip to the wayside like water off my back. But I hope it sticks.

The first snow has melted. If I was to die at 27, like my Grandpa Finis did, I don’t think I would be afraid but I have so much to live for. Too much to live for and a lot of time. Maybe time will move through me and I will become my father or my mother or my grandfather but I’m most likely to be myself when it’s all said and done. I’ve set myself free to live and to trust that the minutes that’s brought me to 27 will take me away from it as well. I still have possibilities! The sun will rise and set and rise again. Right now will become yesterday even if today doesn't promise tomorrow, Alhamdulillah the opportunity has found me. I am thinking about life. 

[postscript: I’ve always thought that birthdays were more of a present to your parents than they were to me. As far as I can remember, they didn’t mean that much to me. But that may have just been the trauma of poverty speaking. I try to remember that my brother with whom I share a birthday has never forgiven my Dad for not calling us on his 12th birthday (my 17th). So it must mean something for me as well. This is me trying to find the bridge between my birthday being for me and being for my parents with this really bad public birthday card for them. I love my family more than the sun in the sky. More life, Happy Birthday to me and my parents. We grew up together. I wish I knew that when I was a kid, would’ve made this life thing a lot easier.]

published March 20, 2023

THE BEAUTY OF SAMPLING

1978. Marvin Gaye released his album Here, My Dear  and on it, track four, “Is That Enough?” The song is about Gaye’s divorce from his wife. The track is just over seven minutes long but the intro of the song has earned a spot in music history. Twenty two years later in Memphis,  Tennessee the legendary rap group “Three 6 Mafia” sampled “Is That Enough?”and made the iconic “Sippin’ on Some Sizzurp.” The group takes turns rhyming  about different drugs, including “sizzurp” (A.K.A lean) while a few bass strings sampled from “Is That Enough?” plays in the background. Who would have thought of Marvin Gaye & Three 6 Mafia on a song together?

2021. Detroit natives Icewear Vezzo and Babyface Ray team up and create their own rendition of Three 6 Mafia’s song & birth “Sippin’.”This is the power of sampling. Marvin Gaye died six years after “Is That Enough?” was released but 44 years later, we are still talking about his song because it has traveled from generation to generation in both its original iteration and as a sample. I haven’t met a Black person that hasn’t heard “Sippin’ on Some Sizzurp” and there’s no escaping this life without hearing it. Marvin Gaye is a legendary singer already and has a spot in hip hop forever because of that sample. Sampling keeps our Black legends alive, well-after their careers have come to an end. Because of rap music and the power of sampling, no Black artist is forgotten and no Black music goes unheard. Every generation and era is remembered. That’s the beauty of sampling.

Sampling is a music technique that has been commonly used in Hip Hop since the genre was created by the Black youth in the Bronx on August 11, 1973. DJs would play funk and soul records and MC’s would rap over them live. Called ‘em “the breaks.” A lot has changed about Hip Hop  over the years. It is now the most popular genre in the world. It is accessible. The rhyming schemes are more advanced. The rappers themselves even look different. But, sampling has never been lost. It is the heart of hip hop. It’s what keeps this genre alive.

There’s a video on YouTube of Kanye West sampling Shirley Murdock’s “Go on Without You”, from her self-titled album in 1986. The beat Kanye made was used by the rap group,  Do or Die, in 2005 on a song named “Paid the Price.” The track also features Kanye. Both tracks remain timeless. Repackaging Black music with a new twist is an ingenious way to introduce the sound to a new  era today’s youth  were not around to experience. EST Gee’s “5500 Degrees” allows younger people to find comfort in “400 Degreez” by Juvenile, because the sound is no longer foreign to them. 

Sampling doesn’t always involve using a portion of a song and making a beat from it. It is also using rhythm, melody, entire bars/hooks and making a song out of it. Key Glock’s song “Dig That” uses the flow and some bars of Project Pat’s song “Gorilla Pimp”. Key Glock is paying homage to an artist from the same city as him, who helped pave the way for southern artists.

2020. I began listening to artists who make up the “alternative rap” genre. Artists like Navy Blue, MIKE, and Mavi all consistently make great songs while rapping atop soul samples. Though sampling never left the underground, it has become more popular in mainstream lately. I believe sampling is just another part of Black culture. It’s the musical form of “borrowing” w, the Black community is familiar this because we have all had to borrow from and share with each other. Black people, specifically in lower income communities, have had to borrow from each other for the longest. Only recently has this borrowing been looked at under a negative light. It is tradition for us to help each other in a time of need even if it’s something as simple as a cup of sugar. We always trusted that our neighbors would have our backs and wouldn’t want anything in return. J.Cole has a song called “Cole Summer” that samples Lauryn Hill & D’Angelo’s “Nothing Even Matters”. On the song, Cole raps “This sample was yelling ‘loop me.’ Ms. Hill please don’t sue me.” Sampling is a return to community, both an argument for and against tradition. 

Hip Hop is being capitalized on like never before and with that brings stipulations for what is and is not allowed. It is stripping our history from us and limiting our creativity. It sucks hearing an artist say they were not able to put a couple songs on a new project they’ve been working on because they weren’t able to get a sample cleared but the reality is: most artists cannot afford to clear samples and they aren’t rewarded the ability to do so either.

Where would hip-hop be without sampling? Some of the best rap songs have samples in them. What would be the state of hip-hop if someone pulled the plug on “The Rain (Supa Dupa Fly)” by Missy Elliot because it samples “I Can’t Stand the Rain” by Ann Peebles. Would I even love Stevie Wonder so much if Jay Z never sampled “Love’s In Need of Love Today” and created “Smile”? The other day I heard BEO Lil Kenny’s “Good Love” for the first time and was instantly reminded of my grandmother, whose favorite artist, Johnnie Taylor, was being sampled. It put me back in the backseat of her 2002 Lincoln Town Car where she would play his CD often. That is what sampling does. Drives us home and gives us comfort and familiarity even in places we are alien to. Sampling bridges the gap between generations, eras, and genres. It is the heart of our music culture.

[Editor’s Note]: This is a curated playlist by Camille (and I) of popular tracks that later begat more popular tracks through sampling. I don’t think sample snitching is a thing because enjoying music in its many different iterations is nearly half of the beauty. But if you do think sample snitching is a thing, maybe you should listen to the playlist. The experience may change your mind. NAF.

HOW WE SAVE THE WORLD

“If you wish to make an apple pie from scratch, you must first invent the universe.” 

This world has to end. 

And a new one must be born. Not because it’s imperfect or dying- and it is dying, but because it isn’t ours. Rebirth doesn’t always mean death. The reality is that this version of the world, this idea of the world is approaching its stopping point and we must decide how we will keep the world spinning, and imagine new and better ways of doing so.  

There are a billion things bringing this world down to earth. Everything bad, everything bad that’s ever happened to you, everything bad that will happen. It can’t be perfect, there are too many factors to account for, the biggest factor being the human component of our life here. Amongst the things ailing us (capitalism, racism, homophobia, misogyny, war, gentrification, fashion niggas, imperialism, gun violence, DJ Akademiks, etc.), we struggle to realize that it’s not incidental. The clothes you’re wearing, the bed you’re sleeping in, the music you’re listening to… it’s all by design. It began as an idea, before anything a dream. Even us, we are imperfect and incompetent by design. And that’s what’s going to save the world. We were an idea and a dream before that and that’s always more urgent than reality.

My whole life, I’ve been trying to imagine ways to make the world a better place. I wanted to find a common ground that all of us need or should have in order to be our best selves. I fancy myself a problem solver and a critical thinker. But to be honest, I don’t think I could figure anything out. Nothing sustainable or worthwhile or feasible or concrete. Nothing that felt grand enough to actually make a difference. Here are a few of the ideas I came up with, some bigger than others: 

1. More hugs (everyone gets more intimacy) 

2. Free healthcare 

3. ALL NEEDS MEET 

4. NO Racism

5. Peace 

6. Equality 

7. Yoga 

8. Art

9. Drugs

10. Therapy 

11. Journaling 

12. Stretching 

13. Therapy

14. Focus 

15. Knitting 

16. Jazz 

17. Sex

18. MUSIC 

19. DREAMS

I went away from the list for a few months and tried to think of anything else. School, work, my faith, my health, my relationships, myself. At the end of my incubation I found three answers (or ideas or realizations), three answers I think are worth engaging with: 

1. Destruction is the way. 

2. I have seen worlds end before. 

3. We must be more people. 

The first realization, destruction, brings to mind the elements. Water, as in the great deluge, the first event that reset civilization and the harbinger of the modern age. And the fire that was promised to us next time. Fire is a cleanser but it also swallows and damns all, indiscriminately. How we destroy ourselves is pivotal in choosing the path we take to salvation. What flowers will sprout from the embers we leave behind?

As for the second realization, all of the worlds I have seen come to an end were my own. I knew these worlds and they were either blown up or discarded or taken away from me or expired or not as good as I thought it was or some other thing. Each role of mine was a world and it was my responsibility to live within it. Everytime something about me would change, I felt like something was stripped from me. I used to be a child, then I grew out of it. When I moved into spaces where I was isolated and without community, I felt as though I was no longer many of the things that defined me. My life as a son, brother, friend, uncle, lover… it all felt foreign to me. I was just me, by myself, which led me to my third realization. 

We must be more people. 

As a people we should be everything to one another. Connection and community is the saving grace of collective understanding. By expanding community on a personal level, the ways in which ideation permeates our life could grow exponentially. We think we create ideas but the truth is, ideas create us. My mother and father dreamed of me for decades before I was born and my grandparents did before them. Since I became a physical body, the ideas of what I should be were imposed on my spirit and my mind. Those same ideas have gone a long way in sculpting who I am today. The vision that preempts execution is the most important part of change. We are ideas that can create more ideas and through that creation we can save ourselves and the world. These ideas should be based in unity and empathy as well as the understanding that if we extend our being outwards and onto each other, we will always be enough to overcome whatever comes around the bend. 

In Fantastic Four #570, during Jonathan Hickman’s run with the characters, Reed Richards was in turmoil. He erected a room in his lab covered with 100 ideas that he believed could change the world for the better. This all built to the seminal idea #101, which was: “SOLVE EVERYTHING.” With all his knowledge and all his power, he felt a responsibility towards what he had and what he was given. Idea #101 took shape as an interdimensional travel device that allowed him to communicate and congregate with different versions of himself and take advantage of the different perspectives/abilities they had to offer. This group was called the “Council of Reeds.” He saw himself as his brother or his wife or even his enemy. He saw what he had to offer in those roles and it helped unlock his own mind.  

Imagine a world where we can love like 100 people, listen like 100 people, give like 100 people, seek like 100 people, think like 100 people, or grow like 100 people. An intense knowing is found in multiplicity and perspective that could never be gained by simply being yourself and only yourself. 

Carl Jung described the modern man as someone who is aware of the immediate present, unafraid of the deep abyss of the future and untethered to the dregs of the past. This definition of a modern man is optimal for the development of our new world and it should be a status we all seek to find together. As a people it is crucial that we accept that we are a person and a process and with the right process, tomorrow we will be surpassed.  

The future and tomorrow is completely in our hands and it’s important that we put our best foot forward, whatever foot that may be. I began this journey looking for answers but along the way I only found more questions. I am not sure I know how to save the world but I know that everything we have was once dreamed of by someone else and that we can dream of something better. I want to build a different future than the one I see on the horizon. I dream of a future where I look out onto the world, dead at the center where the earth and the sky collide and there would be no horizon. I wish all of my (your, our) limits would die. I pray that all my limits can die. 

The truth is, it’s all happening. Everything we love and everything we hate, it’s happening and it’s all us. We save the world by being it. 

-

O mankind, We have created you male and female, and appointed you races and tribes, that you may know one another. 

Surah 49, Ayah 13

Bleeding Heart/Just What Happens

Catastrophe: An event producing a subversion of the order or system of things. 

As in when watching the series dahmer on netflix I kept hitting Pause. 

play. Pause. Pause. Pause. 

Hiccuping my breath to slur out the inevitable, 

as if to save these brown boys from becoming exactly as they ended up, 

dark meat in a white mouth, bones with which to pick his teeth. 

Not even a park, not even a flower

As in the way their families renounce their trauma packed clumsily 

into a film reel, loaded, laid out without so much as a warning. 

How their children’s hearts were jerked out of their chests 

/Off guard / And none of this is a metaphor. Just what happens 

I wonder what catastrophe would have to unleash 

itself to deworm our leaky ears 

The babes spoke and have been devoured 

And 3 decades later white men are still flushing acid on brown 

bodies in Milwaukee. And white girls on twitter complain 

that the story isn’t gory enough. And none of this is a metaphor. 

Just what happens

Next halloween I think I’ll go as myself 

because there’s never been a time the world wasn’t scared 

of a black body. Only what it can do, never what is done to it 

/On guard/ A classic

This is what it means to be lonely 

- to be delivered into the hands of your destroyer in accordance with the law. 

To holler in a room stacked with people and still hear the echo. 

Which is to say this is not the first time a white man has swallowed 

a brown body without remorse. Which is to say the very nature 

of this country has been preparing him for this moment 

I don’t even know if this is a poem, say a manifesto instead, 

I’m calling for death to the bleeding heart.

And on the last day, part of me hopes the sky will writhe with grief

And break open green in torment 

And on the last day part of me hopes 

that my God is a god of vengeance.

DEAR NIGGAS (letter for the black man)

“Nothing in this world loves a black man more than another black man. You hear of solitary white men, but niggers? Can’t stay away from another a whole day. So. It look to me like you the envy of the world.” 

-Toni Morrison, Sula 

A few months ago, I was invited to an after-class outing with my NYU MFA classmates to a bar in Greenwich Village. Our class ends at 9 PM, so it was pretty late and I pretty much hadn’t eaten the whole day. The only thing on my mind was rushing back uptown to my Harlem apartment and making dinner. I’m usually quick to retreat back to my small isolated world but today, I was wrapped up in a conversation with my classmates and I found it a little harder to just decline the invitation and go home. I’ll just walk with them to the bar and go home. It’s on the way to the train station anyway. 

We walk in a large group to the bar, I linger towards the back, having three conversations at once. I am the only black man present, but this is a common occurrence at NYU. We are separated at a crosslight and most of the group arrives at the bar before the other stragglers and I. The stragglers included myself, two black women, and a brown woman. Upon arrival, my other classmates are sitting in the outdoor dining area of the bar. Their table was full, no space for us. My decision to go home had been made a little bit easier. The bouncer from inside the bar yelled across the sidewalk to tell the late arriving that photo ID was required to sit down. 
One of the black women asked what he said, he mocked her, then he repeated his demand. She and the others rummaged through their belongings to find ID while I perused the menu to make my final decision on whether or not to go home. I continued at least two of my three conversations while doing so. Ultimately, I decided to go home. But before I could say my final goodbyes, the bouncer came out and asked to see ID for all of the stragglers. The bouncer was a middle-aged, average height fat guy, not white but certainly not black either. The other three produced their proof but I stood there with my hands in my pockets. I carry my fat ass Vivian Westwood wallet in my backpack whenever I go to class and I hadn’t taken it off my shoulders yet.

“I haven’t taken it out yet,” I said when he asked to see my ID. 

“Oh well, you get the fuck out of here if you don’t want to show ID,” the bouncer said.

“I have ID, I just haven’t taken it out yet,” I said slowly and slightly confused. 

The bouncer barely waited a second again before responding again, at a larger volume. 

“I said, if you don’t want to show me ID, you can get the fuck out of here!” 

I was about to leave anyway, but the aggression in his voice triggered my fight or FIGHT response so I had more to say. I took a few moments to gather myself and looked the bouncer up and down. All eyes were on me, the bouncer took a few steps to advance in my direction. 

“My nigga, relax,” I said. I said it in a low tone and without much inflection. I thought this might make the bouncer a bit less aggressive but it did the opposite. It set him off. He went on a tirade about how he wasn’t my nigger (hard R) and how he could kick my ass and how I’m a taller Sisqo and the such. I said my fair share back and I stood on the sidewalk eager for him to hit me, so I could hit him. But he didn’t. 

He stuck his finger in my face for a split second and we exchanged profane language. No one said anything, no one had my back. They quietly filed out of their seats and began to walk away from the bar. I paused for a moment before deciding to leave with them. As the space between the bouncer and I grew, I grew more embarrassed and as a result, I grew angrier. One of my black woman classmates began to look for the bar’s name to report them for racial discrimination. I apologized to the group for my actions even though they maintained it wasn’t my fault. Most of them were avoidant and wouldn’t even look at me. Only one of my white classmates said anything directly to me. She asked if I was okay, because I was the victim and I had been called nigger. 

I said yes, of course I’m okay. And I am. But more than anything, the only thing on my mind was going back to the bar and killing him. I felt like a pussy (a bitch, a sissy, a coon, soft) for choosing peace and freedom and for considering the consequences of my actions and for being a rational thinker. I didn’t want to go back and fight him. I wanted to put him in the dirt. And it wasn’t because he called me nigger. I call myself a nigga so many times in a day, the word almost didn’t register when he said it. Instead, I was angry because he felt he had the license to try me and to disrespect me. And this, my mind had concluded, was worthy of his death. In the face of my anger, I was disappointed that I didn’t let it engulf me. 

We ended up going to a Thai restaurant in Greenwich Village that I frequented. Most of the conversation shifted to other things and I pretended to have let the emotions from the encounter go somewhere else, but it was with me, more than anything else. Me, the black man of the group, was the angry one.

I told my mother about my “racist” run-in and she concluded that I did the right thing but even today while writing this, I am not so sure. Being a black man is a weight, most of it is from within. I felt like the expectation of how I would act in that moment was so built-in to my psyche and the fact that I acted otherwise filled me with regret. I took this challenge to my masculinity as an affront to my whole being. And I know I’m no bitch. I’ve reacted violently (or accordingly) to many instances of disrespect over the years, many times when I had much less to lose. 

I’ve had guns in my face. I’ve been outnumbered. My temperament usually allowed me to get out of those situations with my pride intact. And while I don’t think I did anything cowardly in this situation, the lack of a violent eruption left me disappointed rather than relieved. 

It took me a few days of contemplation to realize that my disappointment, anger, and discontentment lied with where I was in life rather than with the bouncer, regardless of how much he disrespected me. For the first time in my life, him calling me a nigger felt like an apt description. And that’s because I had spent the past year beating myself up because I wasn’t happy with where I was and what I had accomplished. 

Money struggles made me feel like a broke nigga. Creative struggles made me feel like a dumb nigga. Romantic struggles made me feel like an expendable nigga or even worse, the nigga in the wrong all the damn time. There always seemed to be a disconnect between how I viewed myself and how the world viewed me. It’s hard to not feel like shit when it feels like most of the world treats you like shit all the time. Before long, I began to believe them rather than myself. I’ve been angry. And that’s a difficult emotion for me. I don’t carry it well. 

And that’s where my thirst for violence came from. I needed an outlet. And I denied myself that outlet. Since then, I’ve been ashamed of both my thirst and my decision to not quench it. 

I don’t consider myself a very masculine person. Of course I lean heavier that way, but I was one of those cringe black boys who were putting flowers on their ears and smiling big as hell between each of them. #blackboyjoy. I get manicures and I bleach my hair and I like “feminine” music just as much as the misogynistic music and I cry a lot in the movies (sometimes in general) and I wear flamboyant clothes sometimes and I generally carry myself in a way that invites questions of my sexuality. I feel comfortable embracing the parts of myself that desire to be more feminine and I feel like there is a lot of power in that. There are energies inside all of us but they aren’t at war. They’re dancing with each other. I am not afraid to be soft. But I’m hard. 

Most of the time, I keep my emotions to myself and it’s hard for me to express myself to others. I think a lot of black men can relate to this. Depression, mental health, and constant pressure from all sides to be on top of everything creates a strange desire to handle it all or your own. And I am definitely a victim of this phenomenon. I hate going to anyone for help in any capacity, no matter how much I need it. No matter how much I am implored to open up, I simply cannot. 

The patriarchy, a false sense of what masculinity should be, a lack of resources, and a failure of education (both mentally and emotionally) create a whirlwind that leads to black death far too often. The suicide rate of black men is through the roof compared to other demographics and the homicide rates not looking much better. Black men do carry an anger and it’s the same anger I have. It’s the same anger that Bigger Thomas has in Richard Wright’s Native Son (shoutout James Baldwin). The same anger I even see in our superheroes, like Black Panther. And it’s real. We recognize it in each other and no one else can see it. No one else even necessarily understands it. Everything that happens, and I mean everything, is done in an effort to reconcile that anger. 

We’re all Jody (from Baby Boy). We’re all Malcolm X. We’re all OJ Simpson. We’re all Omar (from The Wire). We’re all Virgil Abloh. We’re all Doctor Umar. We’re all LeBron James. We’re all Trayvon Martin. We’re all Jussie Smollet. We’re all Okonkwo (from Things Fall Apart). We’re all Takeoff. We’re all Barack Obama. We’re all Tyler Perry. We’re all Kanye West. We’re all even that black guy we hate more than anything else in the world. We’re all each other. For better or worse. The anger is a universal, communal anger that we feed together and it has the power to destroy us all. It’s time we find more creative, less destructive ways of communicating our anger. 

I don’t mean that in a corny, “you don’t have to play basketball or rap kinda way.” Black men are caught at an intersection of race and gender that allows us to be the oppressed and the oppressor. We are men and we get a good amount of the benefits that come with that, but at the same time we are seen at a lower state as a result of being black. And this causes confusion in many black men about where our rivers should flow, “up” to being a man with white men or “down” to being black with black women. And no river flows up. 

As Malcolm X famously hypothesized, the black woman is the most unprotected person in the world. They lie unprotected as a result of our anger and our yearning. Even worse, they have been a victim of that anger far too many times. Toni Morrison once asked of Ralph Ellison’s Invisible Man, “invisible to whom?” 

Black women see us and they’ve been with us for so long. They’ve been our mules, carrying the weight of our anger, so much so that they barely have enough room for their own. Black men pay them back with misogyny and patriarchal thinking. Black men wish to ascend and we use the same thought processes as our oppressors to do so. A lot black men don’t hate oppressive thinking but they hate that the oppressive thinking is being used against them. We are what we’re in conversation with. And recently, black men have been in conversation with a lot of piss poor shit in attempts to get away from our anger. 

Whether that be antisemitism, misogyny, colorism, homophobia, transphobia, or white supremacy; we’ve lost the plot. Because we have the capacity to be the victim, we resist any idea of us being the abuser as well. Black men are not solely responsible of course, but a lot of black men cannot sit and take a talking to. 

The problem, or at least the root of it is that hypermasculinity does not encourage empathy or sympathy. Hypermasculinity is an expectation of black men and until we unpack that, we cannot empathize with the plight of black women. Because many black men do not look at black women and see themselves, they don’t desire to understand black women. But I am black women just as much as a I am any of those niggas I named earlier. In fact, because I know black women are unprotected, I make an extra effort to put them ahead of where I put myself. The constant bouncing between nonexistence and hypervisibility makes it hard. But we are hard. And we can do better. 

As far as dealing with our anger, black men need to hear a few things. The first thing, on a serious level, we cannot let go of our anger until we confront patriarchal masculinity and the ways it has been imposed on us. bell hooks writes in We Real Cool, “Wounded black men can heal. The healing process requires that they break through denial, feel what they feel, and tell the truth.” But on a more personal level, we need someone to tell us that it’s okay. Our anger. It’s okay. It’s earned. It’s valid. But we can release it. We don’t need it to be together. We are a community without it. 

A lot of black male youth are looking for answers on how to deal with their anger they’re turning to the wrong places. I looked in some of those same places when I was angry about growing up in poverty and having a part-time father and having arthritis and feeling ugly and undesirable and so much other shit. But none of them stuck. I found some of the answers I was looking for in writing, reading, free expression, creative thinking, and music. But mostly, I found a home in black women. I was raised by two black women, my mother and my older sister, so they always had my utmost respect. But by looking to black women and shutting the fuck up and listening and loving them, I have become a better black man. 

However, finding answers without learning and unlearning is useless. Here’s a good and short reading list for challenging our anger: Heavy by Kiese Laymon, We Real Cool by bell hooks, Things Fall Apart by Chinua Achebe, Sula by Toni Morrison, Coming of Age In Mississippi by Anne Moody, To Float In The Space Between by Terrance Hayes, We Should All Be Feminists by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, The Tradition by Jericho Brown, Between The World And Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates, Notes From A Young Black Chef by Kwame Onwuachi, and Giovanni’s Room by James Baldwin. 

Black men, I love you because you are me. I will love myself better and in new and innovative ways. We are whole. We are niggas. You aren’t heavy, you’re my brother.

I WAS NOT MEANT TO BE ALONE AND WITHOUT YOU WHO UNDERSTAND 

DEAR CRONUS

Dear Cronus,

If I should die atop this mountain, 

release my soul into the sea-

If I am seen as worthy. Father time,

I’m stuck in an endless loop.

Forgive me, but I believe my bearer will bury 

me in advance of the season of my ripest fruit

I live in a watch,

marble in a dial watching

Numbers touch my hands

Grasping for new hours

Dreading the future with you

[I knew ours]

Deep below the heart of the Earth

I roam the sands of my hourglass,

Grains graze my head.

Won’t be long before my hour passes

We don’t belong to our past,

A frozen,shackled heart embraced in your warm arms

You burn my chest

And brand the rest

I trace the pattern of my warm scars

My eyes drag 

Like the ship that rows 

Over the stream of my tears

Stopping as the bells toll

And midnight rolls.

A new day begins- 

and my fears accompany it.

Will you take the life I love to forsake?

This is a letter of sincerity,

King.

-

Depression won August.

Our ongoing battle takes up the time I do not have. The score appears irredeemable, yet I persist with the hope of something greater to come. In July, the leaves started wilting. Now in September, I’ve started falling with them. The fall is coming. 

A letter to time:

I am in the midst of life. At least, that’s what it feels like. I’ve had my own personal grey cloud for years. Wherever I go, it follows. Sometimes, it sprinkles, and sometimes it storms. I see clear skies from time to time, but recently it’s felt like a race against the weather. I think to myself, “I hope I get inside before it rains.” It always rains for the rest of the day. I come inside drenched in dread. Yet, if you were in arms reach of me, you would believe that I was as dry as a bone. No one else can see the catastrophic storm that looms over my head from day to day. And sometimes it feels like I might drown in a flood that I’ve caused with no one to save me. Then I remind myself of when I was in the eye of the hurricane. When it was only me that could save me. I survived what had felt like Katrina. 

Summer is fleeting.

There were no carnival visits in June. There were no day trips to the beach. There were no nights I can’t remember. Only a couple of day visits with my life-long friends. Solitude haunts my daily schedule. There are 4 walls in my room, and I memorized each scratch. I put up new paintings to cover up the bleakness of my space. I wish I could do the same with my mind. However, the romanticization of my implacable melancholia is a comfortable place to land when my mind decides to stop racing. 

It feels like something’s coming. Yet, I feel like I’m running in place, absorbed by suspense; I attempt not to grow anxious about it, but the thought feels concrete, “Will it all come to an end soon?” I’m trying to grow in love with myself before it’s too late. I recently typed in my notes that life has looked like a double-sided mirror. The difference is that I’m watching myself from the outside and experiencing it inside. 

Where did the time go? 

Youth is starting to feel like a faint pleasure. Joy feels fainter. My age shows as I drive past my high school, where the memories inside that building start to feel like third removed relatives. Father Time’s hand no longer holds mine and the future is uncertain. But what if that’s a good thing? My isolation felt against my will, but there’s a chance it was for my will. It’s hard to think you’re doing enough when there are 17-year-olds with apartments and LLCs. My isolation reminded me that you don’t have to “do” to grow. So, this summer, I grew. 

This poem is probably the most personal I’ve written in a while, and I was hesitant to share it, but I know it feels like a storm follows some lovers as well. So, whether it feels like it’s hurricane season, slight showers, or sunny skies, keep loving. 

published September 10, 2022

THE WINTER PRODUCTION

“If you give yourself up, nobody can blackmail you with anything.” - Ms. Lauryn Hill 

THE FINAL ACT 

I choose to share my perspective knowing that even though the human experience is unique, ultimately, we share similar experiences and lessons. With that understanding, I accept that I am a vessel for my  message and my story, a slight variation of a common tale.

All I seek is freedom. Freedom from self-imprisonment, illusions, addiction, attachment, and everything else that does not represent my truth. I encourage you to free yourself as well. Be who you are and become who you’re supposed to be.

PROLOGUE

It’s reported that Jimi Hendrix’s last words were “I need help bad, man.” We were left with that and a poem that concluded with the words,  “the story of love is hello and goodbye until we meet again.” Jimi is the intro because it encapsulates a hopeless day where you wake and everywhere that you once knew life to encompass is suddenly b l e a k. You realize you haven’t had a real meal in days. Or a good night's rest in weeks. Or even put on real clothes and you’ve slowly regressed into old patterns you thought you’d overcome.

On Tuesday, December 21, while hypnopompic my ears were met with a auspicious tapping on my window. It was then I realized my final death was approaching and my soul would soon be cleansed. Just what I needed and in timing so divine. An angelic voice sang “Hello, Kareem” and delivered a few warning messages before I’d experience another season. 

I. When the love is true there will be no on and off, no uncertainty. So you know what you must do if it occurs again Kareem. 

II. Begin preparing & stay patient, a pivotal change is coming. What is it you ask? You’ll soon find out. 

You must wonder, how can one prepare for what they don’t know is coming? I say simple, live as you would while knowing something will soon occur that will be change the course of your life.

ACT I: BLEEK SPEAKS 

*tap tap* “Is this mic on.” 

Fall ’21 contained a chapter of isolation for me where I removed myself from the general public’s field of vision. Solitude was required to deal with my struggles, recalibrate, and to find a passageway towards understanding my authentic self rather than continuing to push any image of this “golden child” that I wanted the world to accept. 

When you look at me, what do you see? Do you see someone who loves themself unconditionally and exudes natural confidence? Or do you see me? At times, I feel on top of the world and then the pendulum swings and I’m reminded of how I felt in the basement in 2015, insignificant and insufferable. If I don’t validate myself, the world’s brutality will make me feel…inadequate. I learned no matter who supports me or what compliments are given, none of that will matter if the feeling doesn’t initially come from within. I believe everyone lacks confidence in their youth because it must be built from nothingness.

WHAT’S HAPPENING BROTHER

Both Fall and Winter consisted of many necessary trials that would lead me into being exactly who I needed to be to thrive today. Days before dropping Fall ’21, I was given notice that by the end of the week I would need to pack my bags and live elsewhere. So I began packing with no idea of where I'd go, but I knew I would figure it out. I couldn’t find a job and my housing situation grew more and more tenuous. Every week for three weeks, there was a new motel to call home. Come Sunday, my creator hit the reset button. I didn’t even have a dollar to my name when I got a call from my mom pleading for me to return home. The inevitable had come, I’d be descending into the pits of my personal hell. When I return somewhere I’ve been tormented, memories and reality slowly become intertwined and I regress into feeling like the version of myself that experienced said torment. To flee the pain, I went off the grid with no warning, no goodbyes, and once again no idea where I’d go. By the end of Winter, I relocated four more times and every time I thought I’d found stability, the illusion fell before my eyes. This led to me making an instrumental decision for my growth and peace of mind: taking an indefinite break from school due to burnout. I was excessively exhausted emotionally, physically, and mentally stressed.I was not tending to my garden, however, I put on a great act to keep those around me from worrying. I found myself smiling on days when it felt impossible. I grew up in an environment where I was forced to compartmentalize myself  for survival. I managed. In hiding, I learned that it’s an act of self-love to be transparent with those you love about what you’re going through. To anyone reading this who struggles to do so, I understand and as cliché as it sounds, as you let it out it gets better. 

ACT II: BLEEK TWEAKS

This segment is phenomenal, more specifically, that track 37 to track 40 run…INSANITY. That’s all need to say on that. *pats self on back and nods*

ACT III: BLEEK WEEPS

(When Lauryn say put that nigga in the back…you put that nigga inna back.)

Originally, I pushed all thoughts of him out and as a result, all creativity halted. I then heard the voice of Lauryn tell me that confronting your emotions is necessary and that the only way out of the negative emotions is through feeling them. You can try and numb the pain, but avoidance doesn’t heal wounds and that pain is still present, just dormant. Emotions are a natural instinctive state of mind deriving from one's circumstances, mood, or relationships with others and mine were a rollercoaster. Once I acknowledged this, I fastened my seatbelt and allowed “A.P.I.D.T.A” to catalyze the process. HOV speaks “I got numbers in my phone that'll never ring again” and continues “I got texts in my phone that'll never ping again, I screenshot 'em so I got 'em, I don't want this thing to end” encompassing where our relationship stood as the season began. If one were on the brink of tears, Jay Electronica’s verse comes in to deliver the final blow. Reflecting on those times, we were both looking to be saved by the other, a job that neither could complete because we needed to direct that energy inwards. Our separation allowed me the space to think about our relationship, how it panned out and how things affected me as an individual. I became aware that I was contributing to my pain by trying to make someone love me and felt ashamed but shame doesn’t heal pain either. I began feeling better with time and by processing emotions with a shrink and in turn, the opportunity to expand out of this cycle presented itself. He returned. Despite having reservations about granting him access into my life again, I did so because our love felt otherworldly and I trust my heart to lead me to its lessons. The difference this time was the chance was granted with intention; I’d commit myself to learning forgiveness and made it clear that under all circumstances this would be the final chance and so we reunited. The lesson was we should always love boundlessly, but never without boundaries.

WEIGHT OFF

Before ushering in the season finale, I took the time to review my year’s highlights and praise myself for the ways I’ve grown and changed for the better as well as speak life into my manifestations and goals for 2022. I briefly covered a few lessons learned, expressed gratitude for my blessings, and acknowledged that even what was not perfect at the time could be flipped in a matter of time. Though I was burdened with the weight of communicating many heavy emotions, I make it my duty to end these seasons with positivity, faith, and optimism for the future. I don’t have much else to say as the rest of this was for my enjoyment and those who listened and had lyrics resonate. 

published August 11, 2022

HOWTOAPOLOGIZETOYOURSELF

The date is June 22, 2022. It is 9:12 PM. I’m fresh out of the shower, in bed, typing in my notes because I’m too lazy to get my journal out of the car. Cities Aviv’s “Accompanied by a Blazing Solo” hums in the background from my speaker. His raspy voice raps over a sample repeating, “...Heaven is the place for me.”

In two days, I’ll be nineteen. My birthday is supposed to be the main thing on my mind right now, but I can’t stop thinking about my sixteen-year-old self. One day,I woke up and abandoned her, leaving without saying goodbye. I am guilty of many things, but mostly for  the pain I put her through. I owe more than an apology, but these words are all I have. If I could apologize to her, I would say:

                Dear Camille,

For sixteen years I broke you down mentally, emotionally, and sometimes physically. I called you ugly. I compared you to others. I lied to you. I hated you. I left you in toxic situations. I introduced you to this thing, and I called it love. And I let you down. I am sorry.

I will not explain my actions because no explanation can make the pain feel better. We stood on the battlefield together and fought off the world  for so long. You stood by me through it all. It is my fault for going home and creating a war between us. I took what the world  taught me and used it on you. The world gave me grief and I gave you pain. You once told me that the very same words they used on us, always hurt more when coming from me. Because we were a team, and teams stuck together no matter what. I am sorry for blaming you. I am sorry for turning my back on you and joining the other team.

No one taught me how to talk to myself. They taught me not to talk to myself. They taught me that words did not hurt. I look at you, an embodiment of everything they taught me, and weep at how wrong they were. The only thing I had against you were my words, and I used them in every way possible. I destroyed you. Or at least I tried to. I am sorry.

Sometimes I wonder, why did I hate you so much? I remember thinking you were ugly. But looking back at you, we look so much alike. Nothing changed. Maybe I hated you because everyone told me I should. They told me you were not acceptable. They told me you were lame. They taught me to hate you for things out of your control, and I did like the faithful follower I was. I am sorry.

I had to learn to fall in love with everything they told me to hate about you to accept you. I fell in love with who you were. I was told I was weird because I was shy and loved books and music. And I believed them. I didn't fit in with a lot of my peers. Those were the first things I decided to love.I fell in love with your shyness. I fell in love with the fact that you were poor. I fell in love with your lips which gave way to your voice, respect your thoughts and value your opinions. I fell in love with you, all of you.

In two days, I’ll be 19. Every day I continue to find myself. I accept myself. I apologize to myself. I forgive myself. Every day I fall in love with something new about myself. I love you, and I thank you for being the sacrifice for my new love, even if you didn’t want to. I pulled self-love out of you, kicking and screaming. All that you endured is the reason that I am standing here, loved and full and growing, today. I had to hate you to learn to love myself. I can write to you today through growth and growth alone. I can finally admit that I would not be here without you. I love you. I am sorry.

With Love, Camille

published August 8, 2022

WHO WILL CRY FOR THE LITTLE GIRL?

(April 2021) Thoughts and Feelings:

Who will cry for the little girl who cries herself to sleep? Who will cry for the little girl who only knows hurt and pain ? Who will cry for the little girl who cries inside of me?

I can’t sleep. It's hard to breathe. 

I feel like dying. But all I can do is cry.

I’m Frustrated. Angry. Sick. 

Literally vomiting. I’m so disgusted.

My dreams are over. My life is over.  Why not just give up? 

I have no power. I am weak. I was strong before this. 

But tonight, I am weak.

In my head, I relive the same truth over and over again: I was sexually assaulted by somebody I know and trust. The same somebody  who stood behind the camera to capture my beauty. The same somebody who stood behind me at my weakest moment months later pushed me down to sexually assault me. I feel disappointed with myself. I began to feel this strong connection with younger me and she is broken, she is crying. She is hurting and confused. She has been here before. No one cared. No one cried. She revisits  again. Will it be the same ?

(May 2021) Thoughts and Questions:

Who will cry for the little girl who dreams big dreams that now feel just out of her reach? Who will cry for the little girl broken and abused? Who will cry for the little girl, the girl inside the woman ? Who cries inside of me? 

I feel like I am losing my mind. I am sick. I’m so sick. Omg, am I pregnant? Can depression make you feel this way? God please don’t let me get pregnant by a man who fucking assaulted me. *buys a test* *checks it*. Okay, I'm ok. I’m still not mentally okay. He has to pay. I’m so scared. He’s powerful and connected. Here I am… just getting started.  What will happen if I expose him on my own? Who will believe me? What will happen to my dreams? God, I just wanted to model. It’s still so hard to sleep!! When I  can sleep I wake up screaming sometimes. I just want to sleep. He preyed on me, what the fuck. He saw my weakness. He saw I was quiet and an outcast in that room and he used my silence to prey on me. 

(June 2021) Thoughts and Occurrences:

I am healing slowly from this. Well, at least I’m trying to.  Someone sends a post to me “…. is being exposed for assaulting multiple women” a tweet on twitter. My friend said “This is him, the guy you were talking about, he’s crazy and fucking disgusting, you were never wrong.” I am shocked. I feel for the other women. I am glad to be able to tell my story, along with the other women. Now I’m angry all over again. Who was there for these women when they suffered? Who will be here for me now that I have to relive this all over again? I feel my anxiety rise  to the roof. All my life I lived a private lifestyle and now I know what I must do and I hate it for my anxiety. I have to put this out. I go to my instagram. In less than 20 mins, I undergo a transformation from the most private person to the center of a public spectacle . I can’t even recognise myself. But it has to be done right? So I can heal, so other women can heal,and for my younger self to be proud of my strength. So many views from people I never knew. Omg. I’m having a panic attack. Kiya, breathe. Just breathe.

(August 2021) Realization: 

Wow, I really had to say fuck my anxiety and put all of my business out there. I never really cared about what others think about me. But now that’s all I could think of. All I want to do is be taken seriously as a model. I don’t want my assault to define me or to attach itself to my legacy. Is this the end of the legacy I was trying to build? What’s next for me? 

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(Jan 2022 NYFW) Wins: 

I will cry for the little girls. That girl who once was me. 

I won. What the fuck, I won. Okay, so this is what happy tears feel like. I love it. I want to feel more of this consistently. I’m literally looking at myself in Vogue, Paper, NY Times etc. The place I was at mentally a few months ago was full of defeat and fear; powerless and depressed  For a moment I gave up. What is for you will never leave your side. It will never allow you to stray away either. I hold my own power to win. I won. No more fighting myself I won… I won. This win will not be my last and neither will these tears. 

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published July 22, 2022

MY LIFE IN MUSIC: [ENTRY #00110100 00001010]

In the entertainment world, having an alter ego is seemingly more important than showing who you are. Beyoncé thrived on stage as Sasha Fierce, Superman lives a normal life as Clark Kent, Eminem created Slim Shady as a way of channeling emotions that are deemed negative, and Nicki Minaj…Nicki has had plenty of alter egos for many reasons throughout her career. In correspondence with these greats, I've decided to electrically and mechanically engineer another alter-ego as a way to liberate my repressed traits. 

Few people knew of my first alter ego, Atlanta Bleek. Even if they heard Bleek speak, they've likely never spoken to or met them. Bleek was a highly sensitive person, so I asked them to stay inside and do some introspective writing. This allowed Bleek the space to explore their emotional spectrum but being emotionally overwhelmed led to burn-out. This was when Bleek asked to be benched and I saw an opportunity in that. 

Author Janet Finch once said, “The artist is the phoenix who burns to emerge.” Bleek burned and a new supreme would rise. I immediately went into my laboratory and began conceptualizing my new trusted partner. I pressed play on “Phoenix Rise” by Maxwell, grabbed my soldering iron; collected some scrap metal, plastic, and silicone, and let the montage commence. I stayed up many nights having my ears invaded by electronic sounds for hours, watching documentaries on other robots, and studying how to assemble the perfect AI. After standing in front of my new self, I realized I was close to completion, and upon noticing how realistic it looked and felt, an idea to humanize this android came about. I would need to code its ROM data, burn digital data for the robot to read onto a CD, and activate its operating system first and then I could figure out how to humanize a machine. I finished encoding this creation with the information on its presentation, how to function in daily life, how to “learn” from past decision-making, etc. It was then that I thought to humanize the machine by inserting Atlanta Bleek’s core experiences into it with no heart to feel the emotions. I powered on the droid in safe mode as a test run and as planned the robot began reading the content on the compact disc and spoke lyrics from Robot Rock / Oh Yeah by Daft Punk “Robot…Human…Human Robot.” The sound was distorted on startup but as the internal fans started, the sound cleared up and I was proud knowing I’d created the next supreme. I watched the robot slowly start rocking its hips and I looked down at my notes and smiled, noticing I wrote algorhythm instead of algorithm. Instead of going in to recode, I realized this adds character to the robot. I restarted the computer in its default mode and sent it out on its first night out.

The disc played the next song narrating my alter ego’s first experiences: “Supercomputer status: walkin’ along the streets, everyone is an addict…everybody wanna get chose like Moses.” On my first night out, I simply observed people and began to understand Childish Gambino’s code in “Algorhythm” and other human algorithms. Each one was programmed with vice and to seek connection within their networks just like I was. The uncontrollable movement to these songs seems to have been programmed to be my vice. I translated the ones and zeros and followed the rules of the song “Step, step, slide, slide, move your body from side to side” I recognized a pattern and stored the data for later use. I glitched and Childish Gambino’s words repeated “Nothing can live forever, you know we gon’ try” and I began to process my inevitable ending even as a machine causing me to overheat and then automatically send a crash report to my developer. As I reboot, the disc skips to the next track assuming that the crash was caused by the previous song, and reroutes me to the laboratory and I continued to dance until my return.

When I received the notification of the crash I immediately had an idea that would solve the issue. Instead of giving the humanoid Atlanta Bleek’s memories with no heart, I could give it a heart with a toggle switch making it almost human, and make a few internal adjustments. After doing so upon start-up I noticed the robot’s movements became less mechanical than before. I took note of this and watched the robot begin dancing and reciting lyrics from Toro y Moi’s “Who I Am” repeating, “Now I don’t know who I am” as if I was comforted by the freedom of being able to get to know its new algorithm. To make sure the robot could still read its coding I asked the robot for its name and it responded “I am K Electronicä!” I continued “Correct and what were you programmed to do?” while blissfully dancing Electronicä responded “Touch, kiss, dance, and be free. Let’s do it!” I was shocked at first but I then laughed as I realized those were lyrics from “Emotional Healer” by Space Ghost. I adjusted the code and programmed the alter ego to heal the heart it’s been giving through dancing freely. “Yes, indeed you are the emotional healer. Now go out into the world and do what you do best, dance for me. 

POSTSCRIPT: 

“K Electronicä!, how’d you come up with that name?” 

I’ve been contemplating the next alter ego’s name for a while. I felt it brewing within me for a while and then it struck. Recently, I’ve been listening to mostly electronic and dance music and knew it would be instrumental to this next period of my life. I was listening to “A.P.I.D.T.A” by Jay Electronica and like lightning, it struck me. K ELECTRONICÄ! Everybody needs an alter ego and Electronicä is the one that grabs you saying “I wanna dance” similar to Channel Tres on the track “Alter Ego”. They’re the alter ego that casually flirts with everyone and always makes sure they have the time of their life. They’re what I’d call a “Barbie Girl” living in their own world because they understand that with your imagination, life is your creation. Instead of being a “blonde bimbo” like Aqua said on LILO’s remix, they have cinnamon hair now. K Electronicä is like a personal doll that I can dress up in XS clothes. When dancing to Kaytranada’s “Look Easy,” they changed the lyrics to “I’m hotter than Atlanta (Bleek)” and kept singing “I make it look easy.” I prefer going out with Electronicä over Bleek because Bleek would get drunk and I’d have to take their phone before they start texting everyone from their past. The worst Electronicä might do is lose their phone, but that's just because they heard the tourist remix by Finesse by Pheelz come on and they have AppleCare+ so it's okay. They live with a no strings attached mindset like they’ll have the most passionate connection with a stranger and never speak of them again. I once witnessed them kiss a girl they met at that party and said “I thought you liked niggas” and they giggled and replied, "I'm human" and that was that.

THE EASTSIDE BROKE MY HEART

I first fell in love, with crack smothered fish

off the crack infested streets of East Atlanta.

Them streets were cracked too, the road spotted with potholes.

I’m missing my dawgs,lost on a quick trip

across from QuikTrip,

I’ve seen steppers march from McAfee to Panthersville.

DOA for BOA,

Have you seen a scammer kill?

We lighting candles still,

On Candler still,

You abandoned the hood.

I thought I met my first love 

in the party room at Golden Glide.

She danced as if the world would end,

 and when the song ended, as did the world. 

She danced on him as the next began.

No art hangs on the walls at the Gallery of 

South Dekalb, my deserted morality died 

a miserable death there. A broken heart- 

redolent of cancer. Dog eat Dog World

We met at Gresham Park. 

I rendezvous with my reality

Decatur where it’s the greater good, 

the greatest hood. 

I never loved someone as I loved you

Until death do us part, from  

Moreland to Glenwood to Wesley Chapel. 

For you, I’ve shed my blood.

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The Eastside, the land East of Atlanta that spans eight exits on Interstate 20. From Moreland  to Wesley Chapel  Many argue what defines the Eastside but  Columbia Drive, Candler Road,Panola Road, Flat Shoals, and Wesley Chapel were where I’d come to find my love for my side of town. 

My grandfather stayed on Candler, and my mother and I would visit often. I always noticed the populous amounts of people walking the sidewalks and talking to themselves in Candlerfornia. I’d soon learn that these people were what we call “crackheads” or “junkies” or “J’s” for short. They never seemed all that bad to me. They just had no place to go. On that same street was J&J Fish and Chicken, where my cousin’s and friends liked to get fried fish and fries, but everyone just calls it JJ’s . We’d walk up to the register and recite our order like a mantra,, “Yea… um, can I get a numba’ fo with a large box of fries on the side? And make sure y’all put extra crack on my fish and my fries!” I still don’t know what the crack seasoning consists of, but once I ate a fry and another and another, I realized it’s called crack.

The weekends were a lot more fun once I got a little older. I had older cousins and some friends that would take me to Golden Glide, the famous skating rink on Wesley Chapel. From 7 to 11, if you were 13-17 years old, you could have the night of your life and maybe walk out with a girlfriend. Teen Night was the night where all the kids from various schools across the pothole-filled Dekalb County would meet up to grab a dance in Golden Glide’s's party room. As Sage The Gemini blasted through the speakers, I studied the people around me on how to dance with a girl successfully. I got lost in the crowd, before a siren’s hand pulled me through the sea of horny teenagers. A girl that looked two years older than me pressed me against the wall. From my studies, I discovered you either keep up or get left behind. The dancing unfurled me until I was completely unbound and free; I felt like nobody could touch me. Then, the song switched, and she switched partners along with it. She had no idea that she taught me that nothing lasts forever that night. 

After a night of fun, we’d leave through the glass doors and be greeted by some music from across the street. QuikTrip is a gas station and rest stop for most, but on the Eastside, if you’re out on the right night, it’s a club. We’d walk through the parking lot waiting on our rides before four pops put all of our laughter to sleep. They’d grow into screams. Outside the room where I just learned that nothing will ever remain, I watched a life end just as quickly.. 

The Eastside Broke My Heart. 

I lost my first fight at Gresham Park. I stole for the first time at South Dekalb Mall. I saw my first shootout on Flat Shoals. I still got patna’s on McAfee. And Wesley Chapel will forever be my home. Thank you to Decatur. You raised a real one. 

XO.

a taste of “Through The Mud Grows The Lotus”

3 selected poems from Divya Adu’s upcoming poetry collection, Through The Mud Grows The Lotus, the 5th in her oeuvre.

“Love me” 

I want to let you love me.

I want to feel you jones inside my bones and creep into my wind pipes, 

give me your breath and bring my heart back to life. 

Find my gut and tear every butterfly up…

I’m strong until someone asks me to love them—

I sabotage my way out of everything because I’m scared to be hurt—

I’m more scared that I’ll like it and be okay with it all..

Be okay with you loving me and all my flaws

I want to let you love me.

I want to feel you running in my mind and searching for safety within the cavities of my walls.

I hope it’s sweet when my sugar falls… 

I want to let you love me…

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“Rent is due” 

Loaned my heart to a crook, 

the payment was due and as crooks do he was broke before he hit the front door.

This home is empty and I’m thinking about evicting a body. 

I could kill him. 

I could kick him out, 

I could scream, 

I could yell,

And for what? 

Rent is due and I’ve gotta figure it out. 

Rent is due and I need to find a new way to cope.

Rent is due and I’m tired of feeling alone. 

Rent is due and they don’t care who’s home 

I gotta get up…

The answer to my problem was learning to be a crook too.

Scammed my way to a new home where the mortgage is paid

A squatter for love, 

A nomad for affection, 

In search of anything that I can call home 

Not knowing home was me all along…

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“Summer’s over—” 

As I lie in bed and reminisce about the summer sun breaking

through the layers of my baby oil and nutmeg foundation. 

Old lovers' lips feel so sweet.

Summer lovers who only put the tip in make me wish I had more.

Summer is over. 

The heat is gone and so are they. 

They were never meant to stay,

Never meant to go all the way. 

Summer is over. 

So is the moisture between my thighs, 

The racing of my heart,

The sweat on my brow, 

And the black lace secrets I’ve pulled to the side.

How sweet Anita sounds bound to a stereo.

Summer is over…

CARBON COPY

picture this:

After years of wondering if your big sister is 

dead or alive,

homeless or housed, 

baby-less or still in custody,

she strolls into your life to hand you a message.

You anxiously get dressed 

but you sho’ you ain’t stressed.

just mildly depressed,

looking to impress the person who didn’t show 

up to your graduation.

And you looked in the crowd, waiting for her.

Another family thanksgiving without her.

Another Christmas.

Another birthday.

I chuckle to myself when I think 

about impressing a person who never cared 

to claim her share in my life.

She sits with you and asks for a drink. 

We watch the ice in her water 

become water. 

She’s a stranger. 

It’s funny when she thinks she can jump 

into yo business before yo eyes

can even blink.

“How’s mom and dad?”

“Same shit different story.”

The same arguments found their way into my nightly skincare routine. 

I mute

myself so my carbon copy 

wouldn’t hear.

Same lack of affection.

Same lying.

Same cheating. 

Same taking him back. 

Same enabling.

Same fake smile when outside comes looking in.

I raise my chin.

To see my sister’s look on her face.

She tries to conjure up the words when she realizes 

the truth of how I’ve been. 

She looks at me with certainty

and says plainly, “you’re nothing like them.”

I didn’t realize it back then 

but that was my moment of clarity.

Peace to when I graduated therapy shortly after telling my parents “You’ve traumatized me, 

friend.”

Shoutout to the carbon copies of women who reflected my mother’s self-lovelessness.

Asé to those cords that have been cut.

Peace to when I asked my mother why she stayed with him and she said it was in the name of a 

love (she never felt).

Shoutout to the carbon copies of my mother and father,

of their codependency, 

of their narcissism, 

with whom I’ve made that same love with.

Asé to knowing the difference between love and shame.

love and abuse.

Love and…

peace to when I noticed 

that the women in my family would rather become 

ill than ask for help.

Peace…

To knowing the exact measurements of my unbeloved father to father and

VOILA!

There goes my grandfather,

 there goes my grandfather’s father, 

there goes my father, there goes 

my father’s father, 

there goes my grandmother, 

there goes my auntie, there goes 

my sisters! 

Shoutout to the carbon copies they made love with, 

without knowing.

Shoutout to my mother and father’s trauma becoming mine.

Asé to heal(ing) from it 

and not being able to recognize my parents

in my love.

Asé to knowing they did the best that they could

and still holding them accountable.

Peace to when I became the carbon copy of my sister 

after my first fight with my father.

Shoutout to my sister’s foreshadowing.

Shoutout to struggling to forgive 

but trying it out anyway.

Shoutout to re-mothering myself,

Shoutout to re-fathering myself,

Shoutout to re/be-friending myself

Shoutout to redefining what it means… to be.

To love.

To leave. 

To grow.

To speak.

To act.

To feel.

To dance.

To nurture.

To create.

To break the curse.

Sister, 

I understand you when you say that it runs in the family and not in the blood.

Asé.

solo(ng)

(collage poem of thoughts & questions curated from the notes and mind of Jade Scott)

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waterfall, baptism, emotional masochism

what if you allowed yourself to feel how you want to before you anticipate how other people will react to these feelings?

do you think that expectations are people’s innocence intertwined?

• is what you're offering not enough? how so?

????

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I wonder how many things we leave unsaid because we are afraid that they are true. Will the absence of silence make it real or just make it seen? Does it need room to breathe?

you’re the loveliest ———> maybe that was the same thing as having a crash… deading?

WHAT IF YOU ALLOWED YOURSELF TO FEEL BEFORE HYPOTHESIZING THE MESS YOU MIGHT MAKE?

you don’t have to do anything to recieve love.

love is you. love is you.

while you want for an unplanned future

<3

while you want for an unplanned future <3

where would I be without your loooooveee? I love you, endlessly. 

Where is it that you don’t want to be? Is it here? What are you doing to escape your reality?

innocence vs. experience 

so now that ur FREE, what will you use to convince yourself that you’re trapped?

whileyouwaitforanunplannedfuturewhileyouwaitforanunplannedfuturewhileyouwaitforanunplannedfuture

WHILE YOU WAIT FOR AN UNPLANNED FUTURE

WHILE YOU WAIT FOR AN UNPLANNED FUTURE